where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 18)

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part 18.... jeeze 17 threads have past...17 threads worth of dating excitment/disasters.

wonder what number 18 will bring

any predictions anyone?

wedding/co-habitation for someone must be due by now.

CC are you sure he was referring to what happened between you. You might be into it all but I would have clamped his balls if he had tried that stuff with me the first time. What site did you meet him from, was it a fetish site? How disgraceful of him to even mention it on twitter.

are you on pof?
juicy swears by it
lou lol
bet the meeting was tense shall we say?!
is exh trying harder with the dcs since nm's been on the scene?

pof has been pretty damn good to me

cc - posted on ur other thread. goes without saying. should never ever continue going on dates with a bloke that mention nipple clamps before you have even had sex

actually dont know if he had mentionned them too you.

but please.

any bloke talking sex. before you have sex is a no-no imo.
well... def not someone i would continue dating. or even go on a first date with.

once you have had sex however and you know their interested in more than a single shag.... be as filthy as you like

btw - i also would have put those suprise clamps somewhere else.

lou - sounding great. sooo... ds has the right idea. when shall we order our hats for?

hi lou glad you're ok.

cc - I can't beleive this chap, please ignore, block delete and forget him. I do think it was assult thou however as others say sex muddys the waters a touch.

i'm off pof, and the others - well must go around deleting the accounts actually, might think about setting them back up again after brother's wedding when I ahve some decent pics - then again can I be assed - July butlins girlie w.e want to be single incase! lol. uni septemeber same detial. may just stop as I am. :-)

lou is the mechanic the bf???
don'ttouch - is pof plenty of fish?

Hi all - just popping in!

ASBM - its pof site. Had lengthy fun text conversation last night, but no mention of next date. Last night I thought I'll ask him, this morning, maybe not!

grr why hasn't he asked you yet?
blaardy men lol

Yes the mechanic is my bf, almost three months now can you believe? Exh makes barely any effort with the kids and only if I instigate the meets. The mechanic has more involvement and knows more about their day to day lives tbh.
No rushing to buy hats please. We do have a bet on tho. He says I will propose by valentines day next year and knows I took the bet because I want the really amusing forfeit he will have to pay when I win lol

whats forfeit?

pof = plenty of fish

cc - dont feel bad. there's been all sorts on this thread involving one who dressed as woman.

how are you now?

personally i'd say this is more a case of him being inexperienced and acting out some weird porn video he's been watching. there's several things make me thing this... and you gave him green light by saying you like it very rough too.... and you would have probably looked pretty shaken by experience.. and now both of you are too embarassed to ever go there again.

or he is a total predatorial toss pot.

either way. chalk it up as a frog. and maybe do some research into s&m if you are into that so you know what to expect and what to ask for in future.

rofl ohh i'd forgotten him
that was bsh wasn't it lol

I cant possibly say what the forfeit is online but I am so going to make sure he loses

give us a hint lou. or email me hahahah

juicy don't know about you but i'm imagining all sorts here

yeah. naked horseback riding keeps springing to mind for some sordid reason??

er yup
anyhow lady are you all packed yet?

no, been trying to decide what to take though. tricky. as need 3 days/2 nights clothes and only hand baggage

CC-sorry i'm a bit late to find out what has happened but what a prize twunt! I wudnt want to be hearin from him again that's for sure!!

Juice-so are u hoping to get a last minute swanky hotel then? i wish i had a weekend away to look forward too

lou-nice to hear from u, and glad all is well with mechanic

Hi everyone else

Have heard from thetrucker today via text, has said I can pick what we do on next date so I'm assuming that means he wants to see me again lol

have you managed to bag an uber chic hotel at a bargain price?!

girls im getting roasted on my other thread now.

i think im going to have a bit of a break from mn after this.

its really not what i need on top of everything else.

thanks very much for all your help and support and ill be back sometime. just under a different name.

betty all sounding good
have you decided what you fancy doing?

No way could I tell you I would be in such trouble lol. Wrt roasting, as some of you have witnessed I have had that too but you just have to stand your ground and not let it get to you. Hard for some but at the end of the day they dont know you and you dont have to listen. Just give as good as you get.

asbm - no. have credit card issues. namely i dont have one as cut mine up. forces doesn't have one as he pays cash. never had one and never wants one .. wow... i'm impressed by that kind of cash flow management. rofl.

so either i need to borrow someones if i want booked in advance. or ... be brave and book something cash once i get there.

which will result in an arguement over who pays in hotel foyer.

i have to say. i wouldn't be comfortable with him paying. so going to get a relative to give me a loan of a card

betty - what are you going to do with him???

CC - I thought you were doing well giving back as good as you were getting.

I am at the whole carry on over there.

Juice -

Betty - What are you going to do with him??? lol

cc I haven't read your thread but his bloke's behaviour sounds appalling and I am so sorry you have had this experience when starting back on dating
betty glad to hear about trucker!
ninah gingerly edges buttock onto marital sofa next to asbm lou and monty wondering if I am going to find it too damn comfortable .. anyone else like the 'idea' of a relationship but scared to death of the reality? I don't know if I can do it tbh, I haven't had what you'd call a long term, mutually happy relationship EVER and there are lots of things I want to do without getting swamped ... it feels OK with nm but I don't know if I have the staying power