Where have all the men gone? thread 14

[ninah]

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

nah... its not really bad at all. easily something to put up with. just odd. lol.

oh come on now you have to tell

just a quick catch up to see how everyone is
glad to see lb appreciated it lou
mousie all the best with the intro this weekend,sounds like a good plan
belle am having to re:himbut i'm hoping you're coping with the situ
scl am glad you're non fussed about samename as he's behaved extremely rudely,did lol when i remembered the tall bloke tho
eve are you counting down the days til your jolly?and what about this bohemian fella?
betty and weetabix glad all's good

rj,janos,monty and ninah need a catch up pronto!

Juicy-I want to know more too lol

Not much going on with me, spent the day catching up on housework! boring boring lol

he has sleep apnea... go google it.

has to sleep with a mouth shield that holds his windpipe open.

gives an odd mental picture. but not really that odd.

oh have heard of that, not that odd

oh right, i thought you meant some kind of sexual fetish lol

sleep apnea is fairly common isnt it?

is it wrong that i feel disappointed that it wasnt a sexual thing lol

i was thinking along the same lines Lou lol

lou - sorry .... your deviant mind will have to think up its own weird sleep kink.

i'll admit to being a terrible groper when i'm drunk if sharing a bed

this has just occured when i'll have to be sharing with irish next wkd. best limit the alcohol.

or..... envoke an old saying between friends... if you were so drunk you cant remember then it never happened ... this rule only implies if all memembers present were equally as drunk and no one remembers anything and all photographic evidence is destroyed.

lol juicy, think id go with the latter thinking

my deviant mind comes up with too many things, thats the problem

is there something in the air recently?

i just had to give a mouthful to someone i knew a couple of years ago, because he decided out of the blue to try to persuade me to have a fling with him, because his gf is depressed

i told him enough of what i thought for him to log off, hopefully not to be heard from again

also an old friend of mine was texting earlier and behaving totally out of character with the content of his messages, which creeped me a bit

you go lou! lol.

juicy have fun.

As for me this time am deffo going to be stepping away from the thread/online dating/men in general. another talk with gymboy last night until silly o clock means nothing has changed - well now he's agreed to leave me alone for good. apparently it's circs not anything else. not the fact he's not into me etc etc. all irrelevant really isn't it. fact remains the fact. to that end all of my accounts are being deleted as of today.

oh and juicy - I mentioned the my dating other people thing and all he could say was 'well I dan't say it's not expected you're an attractive woman ' (was in response to me telling him about the sailor I was meant to be going out with.)

belle - step back maybe a good idea if your heads messed up. are you cancelling date with sailor?

lou - at your proposition from old friend

the person on msn just pissed me off, it was the inferred innuendo from my friend that bothered me more tbh

cor blimey he msn person left me an offline message last night, i just got it

he says (covering his arse desperately) that i am being harsh, and TALKING about doing something with em is different from actually doing it, and he was just clarifying things

i have replied offline saying this, which will be the last time i reply

"i dont think it harsh at all, you should be spending time sorting out stuff with her, not saying if she doesnt know it wont matter, saying you would make an "exception" for me, like i am meant to be flattered by that, and not thinking i am going to run gratefully round to you on the tenuous premise of picking up a dvd so you can have your cake and eat it

i reckon your gf must be dead chuffed to have such a loving and loyal bf as you, poor girl"

(he started running her down about how she was depressed and stressed, gained loads of weight, ignored him etc, boofuckinghoo)

What a creep Lou.

ASBM the bohemian must have walk off into the sunset, don't know what I said.

I've cut back on contact with the one I never met on foreign soil. He's talking as though he's met the love of his life. I find that weird. I told him not to get his hopes up.

i expect he will think i am overreacting and have "misunderstood"

oh well

JUICY - yes have cancelled everything with everyone. save one sailor who i've been emailing for about 4 months since he started his tour, who's based down here - is a nice chap genuine enough, name's brian thou. has a boy of 8 - likes liverpool but well can't have it all can we!

but apart from that am just not interested. spent most of the day in tears so far - poor boss felt like a prize idiot really I think lol (insensitive men!). oh well.

Lou - can't beleive he's playing that one- it's different - he's only saying that cos you told him no.

yeh course he is belle

he thinks i havent heard it before thats all

i'm not quite sure how i misunderstood what he meant by he wanted to meet up with me and shag me without his gf knowing, as what she didnt know wouldnt hurt her, but who knows what is going on in his tiny mind eh?

lb found my reaction amusing anyway

guess it's another case of a woman reading too much into it huh? .....

yeah think ur right belle, surely u must have got it all wrong lou ...men eh!

how u feeling now belle, sorry to hear uve been upset

like shit totally 100% but have started another thread off. think it might be time for the AD's again. :-(