Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

[lou33]

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

lol dont tempt me annoyed

those kinks are fine imo, all good fun

at least he didnt spring on you during your first date that he was still a virgin as happened to me (he was 29 at the time)

no i didnt take it, but we have remained good mates , and last i heard still a virgin (31 now)

its an issue in his head, because he is a lovely guy v good looking etc, has done it all but the penetration, he just freaks out he says

i have told him it doesnt have teeth and he has probably made such a problem out of it he would be best off just getting pissed and doing it without even thinking about it

maybe not the best advice but it might work

kinks good imo

do it lou you know you want to!

kinks - hmm, they're not too bad, not my cup of tea but then again I suspect some of mine are not for others. Chuffed to bits to meet someone as into oral as I am thou.

eve - sounds like the could be fun in a use n abuse sort of way.

mousie - I know you don't think he's good enough. neither does GBF... ho hum.

RJ - I know that makes total sence.

Am really chuffed today - heard GBF is finally out of ICU and on the road to recovery YAY! fingers crossed carries on making good progress this time. (has been in there after being in an induced coma a month ago after a v severe asthma attack) Can't wait to see him again.

Kinks seem ok. Not my cup of tea either and guess a guy who is spilling all this before you meet is probably just wanting sex or a fantasy but hey what do I know. Could be the romance of the thread and I can remember Annoyed, you didn't want anything too serious, so keep us informed.

No histrionics with the brace fitting it looks OK but a little bit of pain. Also got a weeks shop in Asda for approx 2/3 of the price in the local supermarket.

Answered 'Turkish Delight' email, checking it out hey it seems like an attractive proposition atm. Anyone on my fb can look at a foreign sounding one on my friends list. He is the younger one. Reminds me of a younger 'Mark Strong', hes and actor that I think is FIT.

Also Lou nooooo to the Nekkidpix's, I emailed FWB the other day to remind him to delete some stuff, cheeky guy said he wanted to expand on them.

lol i asked him and am awaiting them right now ( we just had an hour long convo on the phone), tho he is pissed so may forget

i may text him to remind him

eve, it isnt like i havent seen it before

woohoo no reminder needed

Did you send one back? That's what I meant when I said don't do it, nothing wrong with them doing it at all.

Why do I attract such dick heads on that POF, one guy didn't look too replusive but his message was a bit of the Hiya variety, so I thought OK send a reply, he sent two one sentence replies back. WTF so how am I supposed to judge whether he has actually got a personality or do you reckon its spelt out already. I'm ignoring anyway. Cannot be bothered with it.

i was forever getting told off on pof about my brief replies, i just saw it as sticking to the point and not waffling on, and waiting to see if they were worth spending time and effort on writing anything longer

if i ever sent a saucy pic eve you would be relieved to know i would never have my face in shot to be identified

he just called because we wont be able to talk later

i'm going for a nap i barely slept last night as i spent it coughing like ds1 has been the last week or so

Family babysitter just cancelled for tomorrow. And my students were truly patronising that I gave up my "proper job" (to teach them!!) for my dd. Aaargh!!! Money is tight. Wine and an e-mail to NM explaining the above I think. But, it's so difficult, always, isn't it? Even when it's "good" it's still difficult...

Hijack.....Just a quick update on my date from last night with the chap from pof... went well and am seeing him again... he's going to ring me when he finishes doing his ironing... bless...

ooh thats good rum

mousie can you get anyone else to sit?

just marking me place. been with gymboy last night..... hmmmmmmmmmmmm........

and...AND??!!

i spoke to lb last night when he got back and this afternoon, all is fine, nothing exciting to report

OMG, my turkish toyboy wants to come and visit, for a few days!!!! Help advice please.

I haven't replied yet but thought I would tell him how to get here and then leave it up to him to sort out. If he does it all off his own back I will let him stay a few days, show him around the area etc. I have nothing to lose.

sb - AND??? from me too!
rum - that sounds good, especially that you have found a man that irons!!
lou - it sounds like it is going well, I am so pleased for you.

Am hoping that sitters will come through last-minute-ish for me. Am all a bit head over heels here!

RJ - what news of Irish?

eve - x post - wow!! No idea what I would do... very helpful, aren't I? But wow that he wants to - like you say, if careful there's nothing to lose.

do it eve but be careful - up to you but don't think i'd have him stopping at mine thou, how well do you know him?

lou - we spent the whole time being stupid, talking, laughing, it was fun. althou am expecting another wobbler from him this week coming thou. (mostly as it's his birthday on monday, and last night he was having the i'm turning 31 in 2 days and i've done bugger all with my life/ have achieved nothing in the last year discussion.' still managed to slap some sence into him and then we went back to having a laugh & him being stupid. it's all good, as I say thou wobbler is expected so we shall see.

I need to get copious amounts of studying done this w.e thou while he's back home in wales, not sure if we'll see eah other much this coming week - he has a friend visiting from fri - mon this week from abroad, plus he's away till v late monday night, so doubtful but we shall see. So far, we do have a load of things in common/a load of our POV's etc are v similar so we shall see.

mum - a man who irons is always a plus.

eve - you should have said, I prefer to have a proper chat with someone thanks all the same lol.

oh dear, not good mousie, can anyone else sit?

where's our juicy this weekend then??

Mousie, I thought you were totally ignoring me in my cliqued (older woman, young turk) situation .

Hope you get a sitter sorted out. Is another cosy night in not an option?

i would be a bit wary of having him to stay at yours eve, but if he comes over why not have a bit of fun?

I just replied to ask if he's been to England before and told him how far away I live from the airports so see what happens.

yes make sure he isnt after a free holiday

Not sure what he wants tbh. Perhaps he fancies a break from work, a trip to England and a bit of the other. I've nothing going on atm so will see what he says. I won't be handing over any money. lol