Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

Hmmm.

Tricky one eve. What about a polite but cool text, along the lines of 'Thanks for getting in touch but I'm really busy at the moment'.

lou - darkhorse is sounding fab! I really like the sound of geocaching - will have to wait til ds is a bit older tho...

eve - the 'sexy' bit would really annoy me. Have you even met him yet?! if not, I wouldnt bother, personally...

mousie- I cant stay friends with ex's either. by the time it gets to the end, they usually irritate the hell out of me.

which reminds me, are we in synch with our cycles

hmm, snogging etc in public. Well, I guess when drunk that's ok, but I do like some affection in public, be it hand holding or arm around you. but not all the time, just from time to time, otherwise it pisses me off.

my hand is still hurting and swollen after 4 days I hope its ok before friday, as I had martial arts again, and -looking- -at- -the- -fit- -climbers- climbing too...

scl i don't blame you at all for keeping stumm here,you haven't discussed things so really it's still v casual tho regular iyswim
and no actionman doesn't have kids but loves them and would love to have his own one day(hey steady on!)and his job/and hobbies bring him into contact with kids alot.he keeps on making suggestions for days out with mine,but i obv.bring him down to earth with a thud bump!
eve-i like the sound of mrculture/cultureman
rj-
janos-
lou-you obv back to your usual daily grind?
mousie-how you feeling re:exbf?

hi rtp!
eve if you don't want any further contact then ignore and don't reply
don't feel rude you don't owe him anything,you've never even met him

being scrotes is all they have left to try and piss us off janos

oh there werent all those posts when i last looked lol

(must refresh more often)

eve, just be cool and say nothing now, but if he starts again then just say you dont like him speaking to you like that

pretend you are me if it helps

the geocaching for dummies book is on it's way to me

Decided to reply rather than ignore. Told him I had decided to give up on the dating game for now. When pressed I said it didn't feel right so he said OK bye.

Is ignoring actually more considerate I wonder, he cannot take it personally, we had never met.

Cultureman has passed his mob no. on, finally. Will keep in touch but am feeling like it really isn't for me. Guess it's down to insecurity and not feeling attractive at all. Is it just me who goes through these phases?

X post and text Lou. (damn)

ohh god aren't we sick of these scrotes tho?
i made a note of the geocaching site too a deffo for the summer hols

I am definitely sick of them. Bah feckin' humbug!

eve - don't go thinking you did the wrong thing. Sounds like you handled it perfectly. And yes, I do know what you mean about those phases. The good thing is, they pass.

lol Janos, let's hope it passes. btw you are doing the right thing with the hot and cold blower. Blow him out.

Geocoaching? I'd better take a look.

Geocaching? I'm baffled.

rofl @ janos
you quiet on msn lady!
what you up to
eve so spill with culture and his mot then?!

He seems OK, nice and polite. Just slow to up the tempo so we've been messaging on POF for weeks now.

I mentioned the festival that I was going to and he said he was interested in going. That's how he gave me his mob no. It's a sell out anyway but will text him at some point.

i think geocaching sounds great for the kids and throw a nice day and a picnic into the mix and you're sorted!

Ahh, the treasure hunt thing, thought it had a hidden meaning .

eve are you interested or not?
and why hasn't he got your mob no?!

behave eve!!!
it doesnt involve duvets

lol, I will pass it on soon. I'm having a fat, frumpy, ugly phase.

eve i prefer the slower ones, it makes me think they are less interested in getting into my pants and more interested in me

btw i got an email from thesp the other day but to an email account i only use for msn, so have yet to reply as i wouldnt generally check it

He doesnt give up easily that thesp. Are you going to reply?

I logged into POF to hide my profile, had a message from someone who keeps trying. Did meet him at a get together once but he's not my cup of tea.

i might just to ask wtf he wants

i am in that sort of mood

eve behave!none of that talk round here!
jesus lou you never said?at least he's not a texting you.thats annoying
i've had recent fb/other site requests from guy i deleted 4 months ago fgs?

eve - I am sure that's nonsense. Just your mind making you have a down day/ moment.

exbf was just too complicated. A bit on-off suddenly all in to you then not so bothered and too busy. And long distance too, he lives in the middle of nowhere. Internet friends I could manage as long as he keeps out of my head! Someone I met back before him (I will call him hikerman) just got back in touch via facebook - but he was too complicated too - aaargh!!!

Morning all
I hope everyone is well, not stressed, enjoying their online man hunting etc