where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

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ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

Sorry to iterrupt the light hearted mood of the thread but I REALLY need to let off steam.

XP has been absolutely FOUL today and caused me no end of stress.

Exacerbated by the fact that my solicitor seems to think I can be 'charming' and 'reasonable' to him (!) anand he will back down.

Errr...if that worked I WOULDN'T BE IN THIS BLOODY SITUATION!!!

He is NOT reasonable, he is a manipulative controlling BULLY.

Aaargh!

As you were

Thanks lou, much appreciated

i ran out of wine hence the beer

I am just finishing my wine now!

Chores ahoy, yuck.

delegate or leave til tomorrow like me

I have done the essentials and the rest can wait

Dishes are done, floors hoovered and DS's washing is hanging out to dry, That's good enough will do me.

Yeah tis party central in my flat tonite

i am doing all that tomorrow lol

wake up you lot!

Yeah what's up tonight? Have I frightened everyone off by bringing up the dreaded EX spectre?

it is v quiet isnt it?

It is very quiet...unofrtunatelt right now I'm too tired to think of anything interesting to say. Certainly nothing going on on the man front...tbh all my emotional energy at the mo is consumed by dealing with the current situ with XP/DS.

Definitely getting to me...nearly lost my rag at work. Not good. Like I said am normally laid back and easy going but this is just ggggrrrraaarrrrggghhhhhhhh.

sometimes it just gets too much doesnt it?

darkhorse is still excited about friday

janos just logged on messaged you on msn and you know where i am
lou i'm here lol
no more messages from that fella sorry,but if i do and get the pic will send it your way
me thinks rj is busy lol

asbm . i was busy..... not doing that though. get your mind out the gutter

but,marvel was round, and i have decided this ones a keeper.

i may have found one of those rare things known to women as a good guy (wont say nice guy, as nice guys are dull, and he's certainly not boring)

janos - it is a real pita when exp situations are taking up loads of your headspace.

my exp has said he cant take dc on sat, so i cant go to this burlesque night that i've bought tickets for and spent a fortune on an outfit. this is very typical of him. he really relishes stuffing up my plans to go out.

lou - decided what your doing with dark horse yet?

hi guys can I rant on here about ex?

have just found out through the children that he has a new partner, funny enough another one from work!!!!

b**ard as we had agreed that we would discuss with each other before introducing anyone new to the children.

I am shaking, and I really dont know what to do, I want to phone him up and shout at him down the phone and tell him what a c**t he is as he always gets everything his own way.

I have remained calm in front of the children as I dont want them to see that it has affected me.

please calm me sown as say something that qill make me feel better as I am really upset right now.

convince yourself he has a small willy and you had a lucky escape as nothing he does is ever going to make it bigger

it just seems so unfair that he always gets what he wants, but to introduce her to the kids in such a way has so infuriated me, they are still very protective of me and they are trying to make sure that I am ok.

not only that but it's obviously embarassing for the kids to mention it and you dont know anything about it.

its like he is training them to lie to me, my daughter saw them cuddling!!!

for gods sake, he should think of someone else other than himself, just for once.

itm, how long ago did you split?

wrt darkhorse i still dont know but i am going away with him tomorrow, i think it will help me decide

batman was online last night tho and we want to meet up the weekend after this one if possible

he does make me want to ruin him

we have been split since nov last year, he swore blind that there wasn't anyone else, however I wasn't convinced!!!!!

its not that I care if he is shagging anyone else, its that he has involved the children, we both agreed that we would discuss it first and then talk to the dcs, obviously he is still a lier then!

itm am sorry to hear that,he does sound v.insensitive esp.if you had agreed to discuss the introduction of bf/gf to the dc.
i'm imagining that the dc loyalties must be divided here

ohh and actionman has asked me out
he said that i can name the time and place and he'll be there lol

so when you doing it?!