where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

[ridingjoker]

ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

well he's online again - really don't know what to make of it.

Cant have a convo with him atm as dcs are around. If I send text it will be snippy.

But imo he should be wanting not to go online himself ITKWIM not me having to police it/snoop on him - I just dont want to go down that path. It's not healthy.

if you ask him tho he will ask why you are online if you dont want him on there wont he?

exactly though I hardly ever go on there now and stay on for minutes then come off whereas he appeared to be on there each time I looked.

I simply can't be doing with heavy stuff esp this early on.

it's a tricky one isnt it?

yes it is. I suppose when in doubt do nowt!!

It will work it's way out one way or another - (talking in cliches now)

I just can't do drama anymore. WWYD?

i would probably just not bother contacting him at all lol

and see what he does? Yeah well haven't phoned him tonight.

ps what is darkhorse doing tonight?

Evenin' all. You lot have been busy! (I've been lurking).

Trying to put into words what's happening in my life. Ex still around but need to fill you all in. Wants me and dcs to move in but said he isn't fussed and there's no pressure .

When I put it into words will put it here and you'll all have a field day.

Need advice.

impatiently waits for ASBM to return from date. lol

xx

morning all, yes I asbm, we need an update please.

lou, I have sent a friends request on face book, is anyone else on facebook? am always looking for new friends

after a week of stress and upheaval the kitchen is installed, yeah and it looks fab.

lost, can understand your dilemma, if I were in the same position I would not say anything for the moment, you don't want to look like a stalker, but bring it up in conversation at a later date.

You do need to know where you stand as it is not worth you investing time and energy into someone who is only interested in you until something else comes along!

(this of course is not the case , but it will clarify your position)

morning all!
well!
yes had nice evening and he's actually better looking than his pic!
v chivalrous and full of compliments,treated me like a princess!
but yes he is a def.puppy dog and despite my chat the plans were mentioned again
he obv.asked to see me again last nite and i've agreed tho i haven't told him when!
scl-i'm really not sure what i can say here as i know you're not fully emotionally invested(thank goodness obv)but i can see it's not exactly a good thing to find out esp as you've seen him a fair bit now.if it were me i'd just cut contact like lou says and make him work for the privilege of seeing you.
itm-uggh the upheaval of having your kitchen installed must have been really stressful,hope it's looking lush now
monty-yes expecting my weekly update lol
lou-catch you on msn later no doubt!

scl i would just not bother with him, and if he messaged asking if there was something wrong i would maybe mention it then if i could be fussed

i dont know what darkhorse was doing i went to bed at 10, as i was extremely tired for some reason

{nosey emoticon}
hurry up and text me lol

when she does you better let me know!

well nowt as yet!!
she obv didnt need her text a friend for an excuse get out clause here

all sounds hopeful then

as in we may get lots of gossip later !

well have had a quick 1 liner saying alls well way hey janos

Well, I had a lovely afternoon in some delightful company. What else can I say?

you can tell us more than that!

yep upon reflection am beginning to think I'm too good for him (not in arrogant way) and if man gets to mid forties without many signifcant relationships (couldn't seem to get to the bottom of whole of his thirties) you do have to wonder a bit!!

He might think everything is OK but he isn't giving me enough attention when we're apart but is OTT in person). I am a communicator and like it recipocate even if casual relationship.

Janos - in whose company have you been? Sounds nice.

ASBM - don't think I have ever been treated like a princess - ever

Well I met up with construction man and we had a very enjoyable sojourn.

Oh, and my suspicions that he has a girlfriend are completely unfounded, btw, judging by the state of his flat

ooh janos my ears are pricking up here, you went to his flat!

minx

Oh yes, I went back to his flat for coffee. It was very nice coffee