where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

[ridingjoker]

ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

Janos, swoon at the Irish Accent. DD's dad is Irish so don't fall for it.

ASBM hope you get the time and place sorted and have a great time.

POF guy, no nickname yet, let me think, Cultureman as he likes relics so I should be in with a chance. lol

Lou, don't let him trim anything you are not comfortable with. . Also Lou I have 4 photos on facebook from hen night in photo's of me. Have a gander if you get the chance. I didn't take a camera so I wasn't a feature IYSWIM.

Just a thought anyone else on facebook who needs a new friend, me?

Is everyone asleep? Or busy doing RL. Well an ex has just rang and is on his way over to say hello. Told him that will be all he's getting. It is like buses three come along at once.

I was just saying that before eve..a glut of men!

Sorry ended up chatting to an old school friends who messaged me out of the blue, and it's turned into a huge catch up chat.

You can add me on Facebook if you want, how do I find you?

i will look eve

did i mention darkhorse cut a red rose from my garden and presented it to me?!!

ohh eve big hugs to you
am feeling a tad silly blame the rose and janos on msn!!
i'm not on fb but promise will sort it,am forever being asked

eve what happened with the ex popping round?
lou way hey tonight's the night eh?

Yes he popped round last night hence feeling rough today. I told him I wasn't interested in starting anything up with him again. He just wanted a quickie, I reckon!

Have a good night Lou.

Janos I've chatted you.

well eve i'm impressed by your self restraint here

yes very impressive Eve

Samename won't be doing garden as his car still in garage being repaired and I wasn't going to push it. He can't really bring stuff over on the train.

Had a nice but odd night with him last night, when I have been going over to his we have spent the time cuddling in front of TV in bed. This is actually fine by me as it provides a welcome distraction from the dcs and work pressure. Plus we can chat and it's quite nice to lay in bed chatting.

Last night he said he felt guilty about just doing that and we should go out for a drink first. So I went along with that - but the thing was his local pub was really grotty and I wasn't drinking due to driving. I was slightly peeved. And also began to feel like I was some nymphomaniac!! I would prefer to think of it as being good time management and priority setting!! Anyway we did go back before I had to leave. Was I being unreasonable? Perhaps he feels I am treating him like a sex object lol - though I did tell him I also like his mind/personality God I sound like a man

Also due to history with ex any problems of this nature will sending me running for hills tbh!!
Janos - its difficult when they all turn up at once

rofl scl i think alot of us on here are adopting a man's mindset atm.
ohh.not enthused about tomorrow again and am poss going to make an excuse not to go
tbh he's just so overly eager it's freaking me out
he's like a puppy not a man

ooh I hope you are going to go ASBM - perhaps he will start licking your face!!!!!

On that theme another reason I was a bit hesitant to go to pub last night is that samename gets a bit amourous in public which I am a bit embarassed about so when he started trying to snog me in the pub I said come on let's go.

oh lol god forbid!
ohh he's just soo desp to please me,he's even said that he'll make sure he has the right cds in his car fgs!
pleasers really annoy me

thank you i will try my best to enjoy it, but i am starting to feel a bit guilty about it wrt darkhorse

i figure it will make me decide what to do tho

i think it will too tbh
its an itch which needs scratching

it is

I've got one of them too!

ooh itm you minx

ooh have we missed something here itm?

just no one I fancy, to scratch it for me at the moment

are you still having a nosey tho?

Ok so went out with BSH for coffee today.
Nicely dressed, polite, but OMG he is friggen HUGE. 6'5 built like a front row rugby player (which he is). We chatted for ages so I was late picking the kids up from playdates. Only bad things are:
Couple of dodgy bottom teeth that were broken from playing rugby (I know I know I am fussy but teeth are important. Also he says 'fuck' a lot but in a conversational sense not in an aggessive sense. Would actually like to see him again (even with the teeth thing). We could have talked all day (unlike with sideshow bob). So there you go....

ohh so he's not called BSH for nowt then lol
yeah teeth are important for me too minging ones really turn me off
did he seem keen to meet up again?

I think so. He said he would call over the weekend. He text me about 10 minutes after I left.

can't be arsed looking for the moment.

interestingly tho I have received communication from marathon man again!

he does make me laugh, thinking he can pick up where he left off!

however I am very interested in the cycling thing and he could be a good contact for this, so I have been polite on my return communication.

I love the idea of playing mummies and daddies.

llaj, looking past the teeth [which can be fixed] is he worth pursuing?