where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

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ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

Right, I have a piece of man related info that needs analysing.

If you were talking to a man and if he volunteered the information that he had an..umm 'friend with benefits' would you think...why did he tell me that? What's he up to?

Purely hypothetical situation, of course

erm..as i said to you earlier think kink here

colour done, tho i had my fringe trimmed, i am now v dark brown with a hint of burgundy

the garden looks nice i will post pics tomorrow

currently logging off for an early night

What does it mean if a man asks you what your partner does?

(posh overanalyses again!)

no fancy undies rj! due to total apathy
right tell me I have done the right thing
based on the fact that I really can't do half truths I have declined meeting Thai farmer at the weekend
instead of feeling virtuous and loved up I'm wishing I could be a bit less straight laced
but bf - OK now I am stuck with him I have to call him bf - clearly does care for me and I just can't do it
will be kicking myself down the line no doubt
and my match making friends are irritated with the dithering
was looking forward to a night out too.
Context, Janos? I mean it could be pure chat, it could be hellooo I'm into shagging, it could be well I do have her but she's not serious so what about it rather like all those married men 'not shagging' their wives. Could be anything really need more info
If a man asks you what your partner does I assume it's cos he wants to know what your partner earns

agree if someone asks what partner does its purely a financial query

ohhh!
progress with ninah here fancy you using the bf word
hi posh-yeah would agree with the others too
lou-sounds lush

who wants to see my lovely garden

dont we get the shot with the sweaty gardener in tho?

very nice lou, I did nearly choke tho as I thought you were referring to your lady garden!

lol here you go then

not exactly a sexy shot tho!

he is currently having a huge water fight with my kids in the garden, whilst sorting out the paved side at the same time

i have been in bed with a migraine

thats what I like to see, a man multi tasking!

lol yes

my headache is gone but i feel like it is stuffed with cotton wool, so he is going to stay tonight and i will take him back in the morning

i guess i should do something like washing up as i have done nothing all day

ds2 says he had hte best water fight ever

so of your garden lou
mine is on a hill and keeps trying to go back to the wild, really like yours, I'm kind of aiming for green and shapes rather than cottage garden but the docks are winning
I'm like rj, really enjoy working on it, need a man helper who likes hoovering and dusting and yes, washing up

Hi just popping in, nice garden Lou! I pay a man to do mine now and again. He goes awol once in a while so I tackle it myself.

Had a fantastic hen weekend. Wish we could do it again, thank god I've got time off now. Looking forward to the wedding.

On the man front. Been steadily chatting to a guy from POF for a while, his emails are getting more interesting. Waiting for him to ask me out but he knows I'm busy atm.

Friends with benefits text me last night asking what I'm doing this weekend, 'hello, too busy to see you'. Better text back and tell him.

Looking forward to hearing how ASBM gets on with actionman, when's the date?

darkhorse is trying to persuade me to get rid of that conifer arrangement and grass it over but i am not letting him

Nice garden Lou. We have no grass in ours (as its tiny) so I am jealous
Well BrickShitHouse has asked me out!!!!! Oh god now the nerves start again.

the other part of the garden (what i call the back garden tho they are either side of my house iyswim) is not grassed, but he is doing a splendid job of clearing up all the crap

are you going to say yes?!!

lou - wow your garden looks absolutely gorgeous!!!

Oh llaj the nerves..I know that feeling!

It's a good kind of nervous though I think.

I thought Whirrel had lost interest but he hasn't and wants to know if I'm free this weekend.

Construction Man still interested..

And I've had an email from yet another rather nice looking boke on POF.

What to do, what to do? Blardy hell.

keep your options open janos

darkhorse is currently making spears out of lopped branches for my boys

i have made sure he lectures them about the dangers of impaling each other

woo hoo llaj!
when is it?
lou i meant a sweaty torso jobbie lol come on you know me by now
janos decisions!decisions!
hi eve!yeah its on saturday time and place tbc.who's the pof fella then?
itm-hope you're good
rj-spoke to you earlier!!!

oh and rofl time
have been asked out by bloke on frd who cites his fav sport as 'mummies and daddies'

Mummies and Daddies eh?
Construction man is still keen.

He tells me his arms are very tanned from working outside all day.

Oh, and he has lovely irish accent