where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

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ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

yes, well I'm NOT like her
no cats, cakes or veils
god rj are you really 25
gotta go to college now
I am older than the rest of the students AND the tutor
nice to chat with you
hope all still blooming marvel - lous with nm, can we call him your nm now?

lol ninah, there is nothing wrong with being 42 you know

i prefer to think of myself as ending up like kathy burke in this

yep. marvel is nm. he's already decided i'm his gf too.

he's still on a trial period after our disasterous date before he will be called bf in return.

not sure how long it can be hidden from ex though. everyone knows everyone here

i am not ready to call him my nm atm, potential nm maybe

and @ 25

ninah, scl - bloody hell I think we HAVE been reproducing with the same man!!

I have headache this week of trying to sort out access AGAIN because my sol is not being very helpful. Ho hum.

How do you guys deal with yours without going mad? It just gets so frustrating and angry making.

aagh we're still on bloody exs here!
ok point taken i ranted a week or so back..but isn't this thread about our new hooray we're single lives?
but yes ninah i'd tell him to get onto it sharp-ish esp.as dc involved
tbh i've now reached a point where i'm put off seperated men
actionman still v keen,flattering but its doing my head in have tried to nicely explain but hes already talking hols!

Lol point taken asbm!!

yay!
lets face it our exs aren't
fit or interesting are they?!

Nope mine isn't any of those things!

Onwards and upwards!

we were just reminding ourselves how lucky we are

lol at lou's harry enfield clip
yup asbm the separated makes me think, oh well if he's not all that serious why close my eyes to everyone else
life's too blooming short
exes, right, mine actually isn't too bad fit and interesting wise, and he's incredibly available
on to the new though
actionman, quite sweet in a way, you won't know til you meet him though ... he obv likes you!
hope marvel gets the upgrade to bf soon i bet you beat me to it

lou you and i both know lol
ninah-does he think it will be cheaper aft.2 yrs?alot of people do tbh
if the finances and dc arrangements in place he can do a quickie internet one
tho i think alot esp.men bury their heads in sand re:paperwork etc
please dont think i'm trying to unsettle you here btw as i'm not.i know you don't as we've been rattling round on here a while,but when you post it it sounds diff.from actually having convo iyswim

the way he put it was that if he divorced her he'd have to pay for it when she was the one that effed off
finances seperate dc sorted
I know what you mean, it's OK!
do you reckon I should ask him about it again? I don't want to nag, it's his business not mine. I've told him I don't like it, and in my own mind I've decided if he's not sorted it this year I'll have had enough

well regardless it costs to get divorced,despite circumstances or reasons,believe me
i can only speak for myself here..

I just looked and you can get it done for forty quid, bloody hell
he would still resent spending that I expect
maybe there is more to it, time will tell

forty quid bloody hell i woz robbed
ohh ninah you're sounding down here wish you were on my msn and we could have a moan er meant pos.talk about stuff lol

I don't know how to msn I am 42 you know (yeah OK lou )

ohh ninah download your instant messanger and
we'll take it from there!

did I remember you had an email you didn't mind using? if so I'll def send you mind
thanks for the chat
I'm not down just perplexed, I like my emotional life nice and tidy, in direct contrast with my house lol
night all

ninah, dont make me glare at you

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morning all, how we all today. i've got up at crack of dawn and decided to attack my garden.

asbm - not long till sat date, have you decided on am or pm yet?

ninah - how you feeling today

lou - where's batman taking you fri (was it fri? cant be arsed looking back to check)

scl - what you got planned for samename this wkd?