where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

[ridingjoker]

ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

janos why are you surprised?
luna-have you found anyone decent on there yet?

Hey asbm..well, I had assumed no-one would be wuite so blatantly obnoxious and up themselves.

But I see now, that was shockingly naive, nay optimistic

Newsflash - I have swapped a couple of emails on POF with a man who seems to be a good sort. His message was so nice compared to the usual 'you up for some fun heurgh huergh sexy mama' type emails that I usually get.

ooohhh
is this the fella who messaged the other nite?
could it be worth an im sess here?

Oh no, this is a different one! Email out of the blue - I have given him my msn so we'll see!

Am chatting also to chap from the other night but he seems a little distracted and keeps asking me questions he has already asked which isn't a GREAT sign really. But not (obviously)horrid, mad rampantly egotistical or a perve so worth giving the benefit of the doubt to I think.

I'm not chatting to him 'right now' I mean emailing.

way hey!
and yes it isn't on when you're asked the same question twice
i expect a man to keep up

I know! LOL

It suggests to me that he's trying to keep up with several different women and forgetting who he's said what to which is very HMMMMM.

He's entitled to do it of course, it's the nature of these sites.. but it doesn't make me yearn to meet up with him, tbh!

Anyway what about your cyberman...are you gonna meet up?

yeah i'll meet actionman
have to have promised RJ i would lol
he's just a bit full on already with plans and using the us word

Oh dear thats a bit full on isn't it. That kind of behaviour would make me feel uncomfortable. Is he being a bit pushy?

Got your text btw

no he's not pushy,i just think he assumes that we're going to be an item
he hasn't done the online thing before so i think he's viewing things thru v.rosey tinted specs here!
i just feel worried about hurting people thats all,its a bit like lou and darkhorse i guess

Ah right then...he is obviously keen, but that is a very different kettle of fish to pushy and aggressive which is yuck and off putting in the extreme.

I do know what you mean about not wanting to hurt people's feelings, I hate doing that (unless they really piss me off then I don't care).

I guess it's nice he isn't cynical or a player.

lol janos, you put it so well

darkhorse is probably coming back the middle to end of this week coming

Hey lou I'm just saying it how I see it

Seriously though, who can be arsed with a man who starts playing mind games and behaving like an eejit before you've even met?

i guess there must be someone but they wont be on this thread!

Hi all

Had a really nice evening and sunday morning with samename - think he has grown on me a bit more. Def a shift there. Perhaps it was a female in the bar giving him quite alot of attention that made me see him a bit differently. Plus we seem to be able to just 'be' with not much effort.

We went for drink then found a really nice Indian restaurant. Got home he felt ill (not alcohol related) and crashed out which brought back many memories of exh. Got a bit worried but he was fine when we woke up this morning and made me hp IYKWIM.

ASBM - not so sure about your m talking about us etc. When are you meeting him?

Lou - are you stil going to see batman?

Lunavix

batman seems hard to meet up with atm, so i will see what happens but not rule him out of the picture

Sorry lou but every time you type batman I hear the theme song in my head..

De-ner ner ner ner-ner ner-ner--BATMAN!!!

lol he looks good in a batman suit

evening all, that's it I am now down to absolutely no cyber men left on my list

skippy and I agreed to call it a day, as he feels that he has far to much on his plate right now, and not enough time to do all the things he has to do.

so I shall be living vicariously through all of you guys! with as much detail as possible please

how do you feel about that itm?

hi itm, yes, you OK? you had a mis time lately
for all those needing aun sign advice check out this site it has the Linda Goodman stuff

mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/contents.htm

and I would imagine Gemini/Capricorn is quite good, Leo you might find Cancer man a bit wet

my friend v is a gemini and i am a capricorn and he is an utter pita

my exh was a leo and he was a difficult man

i think cancer /capricorn are supposed to be compatible

darkhorse is aquarius

batman is saggitarius i think

I am ok about it, I would rather be told now than waste my time.

he sent me a sweet email apologising so I forgave him, I am such a push over and the glass or three of red wine have helped loads!

I am a cancer star sign and am attracted to my polar opposite which is capricorn, I am strangely believing of them, but skeptical at the same time

itm, we should hook up