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where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/04/2009 21:38

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
and im on msn to my latest cyberman
still thinking up a nickname

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 24/04/2009 19:17

it did look like quite a good night out

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lou33 · 24/04/2009 19:48

no i have already said to take his mum now and spend time with her

Remotew · 24/04/2009 23:08

Lou, hope the babysitting cheered you up tonight.

Very quiet tonight on here. Is everyone at a party I'm not inivited to? Another one as there have been a few.

I'm very upset and annoyed atm. Nothing to do with a man but something as trivial as a dress for my neices wedding. Thanks to anyone that checked out and posted on my thread but the dilemma has taken a turn for the worst. I've updated.

lou33 · 24/04/2009 23:12

i am ok eve, just a bit tired

i dont know what thread you are talking about, sorry

whats going on?

Remotew · 24/04/2009 23:19

Its in style and beauty and I've just bumped it. If you get the chance to have a look. Take little notice of the link as the dress is much subtler in rl.

I could sound off about the girl who wants to buy it but cannot on here. lol

Glad you are OK. A reminder for you of how tiring little babies are.

lou33 · 24/04/2009 23:29

no she was fine, 30 mins at the start of crying from tiredness but then she just slept through

she's lovely

aseriouslyblondemoment · 25/04/2009 01:20

just sticking a nosey in
aww lou she sounds lovely bless her
eve promise will go look and add my bit for you

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ridingjoker · 25/04/2009 08:37

morning all. havin good wkd so far.

i was at a house gathering last night with several fit and interesting men.

however my friend announced to all about my cairo plans and showed them all a pic i had forwarded. which resulted in most of the party about me being grilled about internet dating. the women were asking how it worked as they thought it was all the crappy fish that went online.lol. they were more than suprised when they seen superman and filled them in on details.

the fit and interesting men (ok, some weren't fit but bloody hilarious), were very curious that a seemingly normal bird(i was looking over my shoulder before realised they were talking about me) used internet dating.

so the fella's were then quizzing about the ins and outs.

they still all thought i was completely barmy going to meet him for first time. but once i explained all the details and precautions i was taking there was a unanimous decision i would be nuts not to go.and they all cheered me on. i left party early to a chorus of them wishing me luck.

this was after a competition to see who could melt toffee eclairs in their boobs quickest, i realised i was far too sober for this drunk lot. but i did win the competitiondue to the others being too drunk to remember and check. goodness help them when they find them sticky messes in the morning.

but needless to say i had no chance of even catching a guys interest after my story was out. altho........ if things go tits up in cairo i'm sure my story will have left a lasting impression on some of them in a good way.

haha

ridingjoker · 25/04/2009 08:37

i meant is everyone having a good wkd?

inthemistsoftime · 25/04/2009 08:44

omg rj, eclairs in boobies!

I wouldn't have a chance then, as mine are practically non existent. lol

I have a lovely weekend planned with the dcs, off to Winchester after lunch and then dinner with friends.

Takes my mind of marathon man!

ridingjoker · 25/04/2009 08:54

your mind diversion sounds nice though.

NervousNutty · 25/04/2009 08:59

Morning all

I think i am back to being down in the dumps now after my 2 weeks of possible interest has turned into non.

ridingjoker · 25/04/2009 12:33

nervous - shame. but his loss. are you going to venture online again?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 25/04/2009 13:10

hi all!
well im still rofl here aft.last night
logged onto frd to find everyman online was either one id been out with or had asked me out lol
oh the joys eh?!
nutty don't despair!
that fella has probs.it was good that you didn't meet him
RJ bet they're all and admire your gutsiness

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ridingjoker · 25/04/2009 13:32

one of them was going on his own "around the world" trip in october that he's saving up for at the moment before he decides to settle down .

he's a lovely chap btw. only my height bare foot.

i possible would consider less than 6ft tall for him

me and him were the sober ones of the night.

i wouldn't really call the guys my "friends as such" as i never see any of them on a one-to-one basis. but we've all had these meet ups where it's the same people for about past 7 yrs.

strangley none of us has even pulled any of each other.

but yet i have and could tell any of this group absolutely anything about me. and know i wouldn't be judged. yet i see other people several times a week who would never ever get to find out half the things this group know.

i always find it so interesting how you can find friendship and even relationships and they take on so many forms and different dynamics. yes, they will all work if you put the effort in.

but there are these odd relationships where you might only see these people a few times a year. but everytime you do it is as if you've only just seen them yesterday (except it takes you 3 hrs to fill in whats happened in your life since)

lou33 · 25/04/2009 13:38

i had a strange evening of exex texting me more and more stuff that had gone on between him and his ex last night

i told him i found it a bit hard to listen to really, funnily enough

lou33 · 25/04/2009 13:48

and now thesp just got back in touch ..

aseriouslyblondemoment · 25/04/2009 14:05

bet he thought you might have missed him over the past couple of weeks lol
i guess you've told him to do one

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lou33 · 25/04/2009 14:10

he wants to apologise and start over, i said gimme one reason why i should and he said i shouldnt but he is trying, and please call him to discuss it

i didnt so he just called me

i didnt answer

lostinthecitylover · 25/04/2009 14:12

oh jeez it never rains but it pours. I didn't come on here last night as was too tired and ill!! I now appear to have spots on my tonsils (from staring into magnifiying mirror) so prob do no need antibiotics.

Now feeling a bit doubtful about samename2 (prob PMT induced paranoia) but also due to no of attractive females rising daily on his fb. Trying to stay cool about it and also thought that every other one on there might be thinking same.

and tbh he's very nice, we do get on but def not worth fighting over/competing for - I just can't be arsed. Think if they really want you then they will want you IYSWIM

I really don't want to appear heavy but think I might have to have a little chat to clarify his intentions. If he still wants to date other women he can but I am not interested in continuing if that is the case. But it might not be the case I really don't know.

lostinthecitylover · 25/04/2009 14:13

first line of post was addressed to you Lou re the thesp

PS RJ Like the sound of the party

lou33 · 25/04/2009 14:15

he just called again but i ignored

lou33 · 25/04/2009 14:20

and he lefta v long vm on my phone for me

aseriouslyblondemoment · 25/04/2009 14:24

hmm samename2
if he's a hot fella then he will get interest i guess
and yes i wouldn't be drawn into a fight over any man
too much like hard work
oh god lou how v boring for you

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 25/04/2009 14:26

and i guess its not one you'll be saving lol

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