where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
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Hi everyone, mmmmm exes eh? Who'd have 'em? (Said she who's been dating hers)!

ASBM - I sent you two messages, hope you got them ok.

Glad its Friday tomorrow. Jeez!

monty i saw them lol
will get back in the morn
been on msn this eve!!

ASBM

Looks like everyone's gone to bed.

Nite all.

morning all.

wooo hooo one less sleep to go.

hows everyone this morning.

lets get this thread back on the right track.

anyone got any dates lined up. or even some nights out where there's the possibility of meeting someone remotely fit and interesting.??

Good morning everyone, DD's dad sent her another shitty text last night, this time it was trying to get to her emotionally rather then being an angry one, anyone she was asleep so I deleted it! Even my DS who is only 5 years old knows what it going on so when he heard DD's mobile ping, he said "Mummy its probably Daddy sending her a nasty text, shall I get her phone?" If I could talk to Exh I would but no chance he will listen and will just go off on one instead.
Anyway rant over!
Well I'm seeing fittie this weekend haven't planned what day or what we're doing but expect we will finalise the details today sometime.
Inthemist - sorry to hear about marathon man but Lou's right, don't write him off just yet, see how your next date goes.

morning all!
holly
monty behave lol

thanks asbm

Hi all

Saw Samename2 again last night - we agree that there is alot of chemistry there, planning a weekend away and future meetings!!

For me its not that thunderbolt type of thing but very 'easy' and effortless - have not really experienced that before. Maybe that's a good sign.

I think he realises that I won't be able to see him that often but can see him regularly, IYKWIM but maybe that's not a bad thing - he has sports, demanding job and ageing parent.

Wouldn't have any qualms about introducing him to DCs (as mummys friend) but we are not at that stage yet.

RJ - have a lovely time.

oh this is sounding positive scl. very pleased for you.

ooh great stuff!
this is all sounding really promising here and i def.think that not having that 'thunderbolt' thing might be a pos.for you
the main thing is that you're happy which is fab to hear

do love some cheery news

thunderbolt moments are not always good. can lead to persuing an unsuitable relationship just due to strong chemistry.

the best relationships are always the ones which sneak up on you.

yes it's a nice change not to be filled with angst etc

but it's early days. Think he senses I am quite cautious.

Also have to get used to an openly affectionate person.

oh scl i have that issue too. i'm not huge fan of pda. i can do it to an extent. but very grudgingly.lol

i think it's great that you're not being filled with angst esp.after all the shite you've had in the past
if you were to ever look back on some of your previous postings on this ongoing thread of ours you'd see how far you've come
god i think we've all has some pretty horrendous moments thanks to the men we've dated so being cautious is natural
and openly affectionate is nice imo

exex is not coming back when he goes

i also told him even if i could have given him a baby i wouldnt, because i didnt think it fair he took on 4 kids to have his own

i dont think we will lose touch again though, it's been good to have cleared the air so much and to have seen him again

when is he going back lou?
i think if he truly loves you and it's meant to be then he would take on your kids as you come as a package tho i def.agree it does take a really special person to see this and he does sound like that could be him
am glad that you have positive thoughts on this tho
i think this scenario would have completely destroyed me

in about a month

i couldnt let him do that tho asbm, he needs to do a lot more and 4/5 kids wouldnt be fair on him

it's hard of course, but the talking we have done has helped me a lot

at least i had him for a while eh?

aww this is so sad
i'm even getting upset here myself just trying to imagine what it must be doing to you
im glad that the talking has helped,and that you've both been able to be frank with each other, that in itself must be a huge weight off
i guess you're both going to be making alot out of this final month then?

actually i think its best if we dont see too much of each other

maybe one more time

i wont go to the show

Lou, am gutted for you!

You still have some time together so make the most of it, and you should go to the show, it will be something to remember him by. (hugs)

you might as well go to the show. beats sitting in house