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where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/04/2009 21:38

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
and im on msn to my latest cyberman
still thinking up a nickname

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lou33 · 22/04/2009 20:38

i am drunk so i guess so

still nobbing about regarding taking his stuff, he had til xmas and made excuses so i extened it til the end of this month

now i have a letter saying he hasnt had enough time and needs more

he can kiss my arse im not giving him more time, 3 yrs is plenty

i will get rid of it myself

dont even ask me about my divorce

exex was calming me down on fb chat earlier, beer is helping too though of course

Janos · 22/04/2009 20:53

lou, I remember a previous thread about him being difficult.

I'm on the vermouth tonight - Vermouth and apple juice! Tis all I have in the flat but actually is quite nice.

lou33 · 22/04/2009 20:55

janos, he is a c*nt

i would type it out fully but am respectful of the sensitive ears on mn

Janos · 22/04/2009 21:14

Yes he is, I remember a couple of your previous threads about him and thinking along same lines.

Remotew · 22/04/2009 21:17

He should have moved his stuff after 3 years. Charge him storage.

ridingjoker · 22/04/2009 21:21

take it 2 dump. or dump on his front door

lou33 · 22/04/2009 22:07

i will sell it

Monty100 · 22/04/2009 23:23

Evening all.

Well, I've been lurking and trying to keep up.

Lou, all sorted with exex?

Holly, you celebrating? Might as well.

ASBM how are you?

I've a half funny story. My ex is sort of back in my life so have been off the dating sites lately which is why I haven't contributed on this thread much.

Anyway I logged on to yahoo chat or whatever you call it tonight (I use computers all day at work and all sorts of programmes but when it comes to this chatting business and home stuff I'm not that up on it as I sit in front of one all day iyswim). Anyway this bloke I'd chatted to a couple of months ago saw I was online and we started chatting. He has been begging me to send him a photo for yonks but...... because i'm home computing challenged I never sent him one simply because I didn't have one on here that I like what with downloading and all that digital camera business etc. To cut a long story short, I sent him a photo, but I just didn't send him the photo, I sent him the whole folder!!!!!!!!

Stupid bint. (I love that word, I picked it up on here from you lovely Northerners).

There was one of me on there with a hundred chins and yellow teeth!!!!!! (I've had them done since then).

Boo hoo. He called me a 'babe' though.

Monty100 · 22/04/2009 23:27

But I be he's really thinking 'stupid bint'.

Ohmigod how embarrasing.

There was some of bits of my house and garden and kids and all sorts on there.

(WAAAAAAAAAAILLLLLLS)!

I could see this picture downloading and I'm thinking 'why's it taking so long'? and as the penny started dropping I'm thinking 'no, no, no'.

But there was no stopping it.

Monty100 · 22/04/2009 23:28

bet

ridingjoker · 23/04/2009 07:45

oh monty rofl. thats something i would do.

Holly23 · 23/04/2009 08:35

Hi everyone, thanks for your comments yesterday, it was a weird day yesterday to say the least. I'm OK really, bit hard to describe how I feel - disappointed because things didn't work out but relieved that its almost over and I don't have to put up with his twattish behaviour. Its just that he's been pestering our DD, with his texts again so she was upset on Sunday evening, anyway after talking it over we decided the best thing to do was to send him a carefully worded text from her about how much he was hurting her with his words to which he apologised straight away! However its now got her back up and she can understand more then ever why I left him so even last night when he sent her a text saying he was bored and fed up, she was getting a bit pissed off with him and has started to ignore those types of texts. Just a shame he can't think of the kids instead of himself for a change and the way he's carrying on he'll end up driving a wedge between himself and the kids.

Holly23 · 23/04/2009 08:37

Monty, Just wanted to say I feel for you sending the folder instead of one pic, you must be cringing but I'm sure he'll see the funny side of it! Have you mentioned the error to him? May how break the ice a little more?

lou33 · 23/04/2009 09:16

i think i drank my anger out last night, i feel calmer today

oh dear monty, di you not have time to cancel the folder? poor thing, i would be most unhappy if it were me!

lou33 · 23/04/2009 09:19

oh, situation with exex is not sorted yet, we have ben in touch but i was too mad yesterday, he spent 20 mins calming me down in the evening via fb chat

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/04/2009 09:45

omfg monty
rofl here

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Janos · 23/04/2009 11:50

Monty that is JUST the sort of thing I would do! Like Holly says tho sure he will see the funny side

Glad you are feeling calmer lou. I agree with rj, sell it!

Not been contributing much myself..exbf situation too stressful for words atm and child welfare hearing coming up next week.

Monty100 · 23/04/2009 13:30

Hi all, just popped in during lunch so to speak.

Holly, you ok?
Lou - are things back on track?
RJ - you're off on your travels soon?
ASBM - glad to have entertained you all. Lol.
Janos -

PMSL at your responses about the photos, thanks for all your sympathies, he was like 'hey, you're a babe' but he can't be serious, not after seeing the one with the hundred chins and yellow teeth!!!! And I'm wondering does he think my daughter is me omfg rofl!!!

AND you know the aforementioned one with the hundred chins and yellow teeth? I was wearing .........A WIG (I'm literally in tears laughing here telling you this bit). I WAS! WEARING A WIG.

It was a picture of me and one of my mates, I was round at her house, she was having chemo at the time (she's fine now thank gawd) and we were messing round trying on her WIGS.[wig emoticon]

(My make-up was nice though). OMG you couldn't make it up.

Original poster
aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/04/2009 13:55

aww bless!
it just gets better lol
so what does he look like then{nosey emoticon}

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lou33 · 23/04/2009 13:56

no idea monty, none at all

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/04/2009 14:04

oh frig!
thought i might find out lol
monty mail me later

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Holly23 · 23/04/2009 14:57

Hi Monty, Yes I'm fine thanks still rofl here from your story.

Janos · 23/04/2009 15:17

at your story monty!

Just had very gruelling chat with court reporter. Really don't don't want to give any more details other than that but OMG. It's like having your life turned inside and out and hung out to dry

Monty100 · 23/04/2009 15:38

Janos - I don't know the background but that sounds like quite intimidating stuff. Hope you're ok.

Janos · 23/04/2009 15:48

Can't really talk about it in a public forum monty cos it's ongoing but it's tremendously stressful.

I got to hear all the reasons why XP thinks I'm not a suitable mother, among other things. Lovely.

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