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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone part 5!!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 23:33

ok we're off!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 16/03/2009 10:35

Hi SCL!
am happy to go into partnership with you lol

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sincitylover · 16/03/2009 12:51

blimey just got about eight messages on smooch - must the spring weather - none of them really took my fancy. Most of them no photos/or using the suggested greetings (they give guys suggested opening gambits)

Combined with a very frustrating convo with exh who has blown me out for picking up kids (again) - usually when I come off the phone to him am in tears of frustration. So I have just cx my evening out with work colleagues on Thurs.

feeling very sorry for myself - also got a non paymnet of ccharge for laat week - usually very good but it must have slipped my mind. That's sixty quid I haven't got!!!

lou33 · 16/03/2009 12:54

oh no scl, not a good day so far

BatmansWilly · 16/03/2009 12:56

Ok, I've caved ... I'm here!

So what is this all about? what do I have to do?

lou33 · 16/03/2009 12:58

welcome, jump right in

aseriouslyblondemoment · 16/03/2009 13:00

Batman Hi!
[email protected]
mail me and i will have a perve look later

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BatmansWilly · 16/03/2009 13:01

Will do!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 16/03/2009 13:12

Batman mailed you back!

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ridingjoker · 16/03/2009 13:25

hi batman, so where are you looking on internet or real life?

BatmansWilly · 16/03/2009 13:32

I'm in East Yorkshire area. I don't get out much so trying the online thing but if anyone knows anyone ... you know

ridingjoker · 16/03/2009 13:42

i hope batmanswilly is your online username!! i find that hilarious!! definately gives a potential date something to ask about

ridingjoker · 16/03/2009 13:44

trophyblue on pof. there is such a thing as too tall.

BatmansWilly · 16/03/2009 14:14

Nothing wrong with being tall! well, I say that but I hated being tall myself.

Found your profile though RidingJoker, I'm on there too. Its where I keep meeting my nutters!

ridingjoker · 16/03/2009 14:19

i like tall. my requirement is a 6ft minimum so i can wear my heels if i go out.

did you look at mine?? can i see you in my "viewed me" give me a hint to which is you

BatmansWilly · 16/03/2009 14:26

I'm furelise

I did try and send you a message but it wouldn't let me lol

ridingjoker · 16/03/2009 14:40

i dont have any mail settings. why wouldn't it let you. your not in my viewed. and i cant find you on search??

is your profile hidden?

dollparts · 16/03/2009 16:42

I'm done with all this! Toilet duck whom I foolishly gave my number before I realised he was an utter prick sent me a text this morning.

I ignored it at first but then text back and asked him if he come by to apologise to which he answered 'what for?' I then reminded him that merely the mention of the phrase 'taking it up the arse' to someone you hardly know forms my prediction that he will be looking for a woman for a long time to come.

I thought that would be enough to deter/confuse him but alas he replied with 'oh fuck sake I was only joking' and something along the lines of how dull I must be to find that offensive. (lets not forget the phrase was said in the same sentence as inviting himself around)

I replied-and I know I should have left well alone but I was fucked off with him and I explained that if he couldn't see why I had a problem with that then not to bother me and leave it at that.

Then the abuse really started....he started taking the piss out of where I live and said that coming from South London I shouldn't be so choosy. I replied that I was fed up, not hard up and something else along the lines of questioning his ability to read and write and that had I have clocked the classy toilet duck in his pic I wouldn't have given him the time of day blah blah blah.

He eventually left me alone after I text in vocabulary that would have him looking through the dictionary until the weekend at the earliest and left it at that.

I was so incensed though that a pond-life shit for brains would dare to mock me based purely on my postcode, oh and did I mention he called me a classy african? (wtf?) I am neither black, african nor consider myself classy.

Anyway, it was more than I could stand so I just deleted my profile on pof because I have just had my fill and right now couldn't give a flying fuck if I spend the next 5 years single because I am that cross!

Overeacting? Probably. drama queen Monday? Definately. It was just how I felt today, only so many twats can I take in the space of a very short few weeks.

sincitylover · 16/03/2009 16:56

Hi Doll - as a fellow south londoner I can tell you we are very classy. .

On pof I also had a mail from a 56 yr old telling me he was young at heart. (boak)

Toilet duck man sounds gross.

dollparts · 16/03/2009 16:59

SCL he has seriously put me off the whole idea.

lou33 · 16/03/2009 17:00

oh dollparts he sounds like a tosser

he only got angry because you are right and he knows he is a wankstain

lou33 · 16/03/2009 17:01

did i mention my best male friend got news that his nephews father died today?

dollparts · 16/03/2009 17:03

sorry to hear that Lou. does that make him your friend's sibling?

lou33 · 16/03/2009 17:06

his nephews mum is his sister

supervixen · 16/03/2009 17:18

sorry dollparts i understand why youre so mad though. why dont you try a different site? or have a break for a while? I feel the same as you though, want to give up on it all.

kdk · 16/03/2009 17:31

hi dollparts - I know how you feel - I have had that sort of crap so often and it's just a depressing no-win situation - if you ignore it they start with the 'You are a stuck-up bitch etc' and if you respond, you get the 'can't you take a joke' sh*t.

I've pretty much given up on the free sites and will admit I have just paid a sub for frd - will let you know if that works any better or whether I've wasted my money for the same old same old.

Don't take it to heart, he's the arehole loser - try to put it behind you and maybe give the sites a rest for a while. We are all strong capable women who want a bit of male company but certainly not on any terms and not if it involves taking abuse or crp from anyone - if I'd have wanted that I could have stayed with my x. sorry this is so long it just pi**es me off big time for some reason.

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