where have all the fit and interesting available men gone part 5!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

ok we're off!

better than being a moody faced git some of them are. it doesn't cost to smile.

right i'm off. policeman is texting and comic relief is on. night all.

i would totally feel like you eve, dont worry about it. this is why i think im too sensitive for dating, everyone judges you too much and i cant handle it. oh well on POF for more punishment lol

lol SV, and thanks for understanding. RJ good luck with the policeman. Don't let the teetotal put you off. Look forward to seeing how you get on.

so is it the norm for POF guys to copy and paste whats in their profile and just mail you it?

it does happen

how are you eve?

Hello you lot. I'm afraid I've given up trying to keep up but I hope you don't mind if I butt in every now and then to ask a question.

Today's question is: What do you do if a bloke messages you and you're not interested? I've had two mails from this man and I just don't want to meet him but it seems really mean to just ignore him. What do you do?

Ta you dating queens

just ignore

View his profile, read the message and then delete it. That gives me the hint!

supervixen What is your profile name?

Doesn't matter if you don't want to let me know.

I agree POF is busy and confusing.

No emails from trannies yet.

I think the men on there must be a lot weirder than the women, but I keep popping back to this thread for tips.

I wouldn't dare put a photo on of me without my top on

adad123, bless you I'm guilty of view the profile then delete. Nothing personal we just look at location etc.

Lou I'm OK chatting on msn for a male POV you know who that is. Don't have many friend on there. You are one of the chosen few. xx

Sorry Lou meant to say you are one of the chosen few, whatever gender. .

dad123 ive looked at your profile! its a good one, you should be able to see me now ive stalked you. i think my profile is embarrassing!

I did wonder what a young pretty lady was doing looking at my profile.

Your profile looks ok to me,nice smile

haha thanks dont make me blush. have you had any luck? i dont like the site much its like ive taken mind altering drugs haha

I've sent two people messages:
one viewed profile,read message then deleted it.
the other read the message then deleted it, didn't even look at my profile.

A man could get hurt.

The message didn't even say 'fancy a shag?' or just 'Hi'.

What about you?

see this is why the whole dating thing makes me feel insecure! i didnt even know you could tell if they deleted your message?

I have had messages where they have just copied their profile blurb. and others which looks like a cut and paste general message they send to everyone. i dont like the site tbh. have you tried ok cupid? i like that better.

If you look at sent messages it will say if the message is unread, read or read and deleted.

I think I find most of these sites a bit daunting.Try, give up, then try again.

ok cupid, I'll have a look.

oh wow, didnt know that. thats harsh. i darent look at my sent messages now

jeeze just jumped on and even me the all multi tasking multi memoried asbm admits defeat
glad to see that everyone's ok and happily getting on with it
and yes have replied to all emails!
and to think that this all started out as a late nite convo with the lovely Lou..

OMG have just had a proper nose thru these postings
that's a bit harsh isn't it 'read and deleted'?
do i need to toughen up here?

asmb i think its a bit harsh! or a bit too honest lol

read and deleted is nesecary for some peristent folk out there.

you know the ones where they send message after message , then send a message saying "did you get my message"

that way they just check sent. and see that

yes

i have read you message.
and no i dont find you interesting/atteractive/witty enough/near enough/tall enough to warrant a response.

so I HAVE DELETED IT

Hi everyone, Sorry not been around much lately, have had a very hectic week. I had a meeting in Birmingham yesterday and met fitguy afterwards, it was all very last minute but glad I met him.
Think things are going ok with him, he have me a hello peck on the cheek and a goodbye one, he even paid for all the drinks and the meal again yesterday and did this whilst I nipped into the ladie's. I did say thankyou but wasn't sure whether or how to offer to chip in or just accept it as an act of chivilary on his part? Advice needed here please....also not sure about the whole kissing thing, not sure if he's holding back because I said I wanted to take things slow, whether he's being respectful towards me or perhaps he's a bit shy? I'm very confused.com!
Anyway decided what will be will be and we do get on really well so am willing to take things at a slow pace and tbh its probably what I need right now!
Abouteve - sorry to hear about NM, plenty more fish in the sea though
RJ - Still the cyberqueen lol, so seeing a teetotal policeman tomorrow. Best not drink and drive otherwise he may have to slap the handcuffs on you . I like men in uniform I must say. Think your response to Marvel was good and very diplomatic, deffo one to remember in case I ever need to use it!
Lou - love your advice re: dodgy man asking for a shag (to RJ wasn't it?) witty as always and again have scribbled down for future use.
btw don't get annoyed anyone but I'm a size 4! My feet are one of the few nice qualities I have though!

btw I'm a size 4!

oops sorry!

hope you are ok today eve, and holly am glad to help

i was in bed by 10 but my early night didnt happen, as i ended up in a 2 hour text conversation with a friend of mine who eventually admitted he had not been in touch with me because he had such strong feelings for me that he didnt know how to handle them

he said because of this he wanted to call time on our friendship as he felt he wasnt good enough for me

i told him he stops seeing me all the time (we have had a slightly less frank converssation about this before, which spurred a lack of contact in the past), but it doesnt work as he always comes back

i dont know if you remember , but this is the one who turned up late on the night i was looking after my friend who had been attcked by her bf?

so i am tired and he will no doubt disappear again after telling me what he did

this has rumbled on and off for years, though last ngiht he told me he had felt like it for longer than i had previously thought

i need a nap