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Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 23:21

and so it goes on...

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newlysinglemummy · 09/03/2009 20:25

inthemist - sorry what is wrong with bob? why the hell would he look on MN and read your post after only seeing you three times?

Stay away from him...

lou33 · 09/03/2009 20:29

hang on am i reading this right? some bloke you have seen 3 times has tracked you down on here and is reading your posts?

are there not a million alarms going off?

as as aside, opinions please on nickster on pof?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:32

RJ you are liking him on msn/text etc so all bodes well i think
NSM was only me teasing inthemist lol
i imagine that Bob doesn't even know of MN's existence

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newlysinglemummy · 09/03/2009 20:33

ok ladies I need some advice, there was a guy who was my friend with benifits before dd was born, I still chat to him on facebook sometimes, we have known each other for years, and he is good in bed but would never every be boyfriend material.

Anyway thinking about maybe sleeping with him, the only thing is I am worried as my body is so different to how it used to be, and he has not seen it scince dd was born.

My belly is covered in strech marks and has loads of loose skin (sorry know I keep going on about my belly).

I'm just not sure if i can sleep with him as he might be horrified. But has slept with so many women he must have seen a few saggy bellies in his time. And he is in his early thirtys.

newlysinglemummy · 09/03/2009 20:33

oh ok, sorry to poor bob... lol

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:34

Lou chill!
was me teasing inthemist aft.her lunchtime online flirting with kisses41

and if he was
we'd hunt him down and send him off packing right ladies!!

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ridingjoker · 09/03/2009 20:35

only text him.just general chat finding out about each other.

i really dont like msn. i'm hiding from wanker and another one i met other day just now. i just cant be arsed with it. too busy watching soaps and mn-ing. lol

ridingjoker · 09/03/2009 20:37

NSM - have you broached you appearance concerns with bf with benefits?

if he doesn't see an issue then go for it he will be worth a whirl.

if he's not reassuring about it then dont bother.

newlysinglemummy · 09/03/2009 20:45

we would hurt him down defintly...

ridingjoker - you know on MSN you can sign on as if you are offline so you an see who is online but they cant see you. You can still start conversations with people you actually want to talk to... Or you could block wanker and he will just always think you are off line and not know you have blocked him.

No I have not said anything to him, what should I do just ask if he minds saggy bellies with way too much loose skin and strech marks? God I hate the word strech marks...

I suppose I could ask him in not such a grafic way. I once told him my body looks the same as it did before in clothes but different out of clothes. When he asked what I look like now...

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:45

RJ he obv.has something of interest there so go open minded and enjoy
he doesn't sound like that weirdo off the other thread!
NSM i would say if you want to then go for it
men really don't notice they're otherwise engaged
if it helps you then have a few large vinos to relax,and wear your best smalls as it'll make you feel good
but,and its a but,
only do the deed as purely that if you know that you can handle it only being sex and sex only

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sincitylover · 09/03/2009 20:46

Lou was it Nickster74 - looks quite nice - are you arty or attraced to arty guys?

Even nicer I thought was someone called niceone something who popped up above.

I can't be arsed much at the moment really.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:48

Evening SCL
how are you doing?
do we need to send you kisses41 too
hes on FRD but we can email you
purely for perving looking
inthemist has already been in touch

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lou33 · 09/03/2009 20:50

oh blimey shows how much attention i am paying, i meant nickser

will go check out nickster74 tho

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:51

lol at Lou the quick fingered one
NSM and SCL
email me and i will send on kisses41 profile
[email protected]

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lou33 · 09/03/2009 20:52

oh that nickster bloke isnt bad

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 20:53

is he in your neck of the woods Lou

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lou33 · 09/03/2009 21:05

not that far

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 21:07

ooh sounding promising then

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lou33 · 09/03/2009 21:14

i doubt it, am not that fussed

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 21:23

oh ok then!
anyone else lol.

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lou33 · 09/03/2009 21:25

property developer is on msn to me, i have an actor/photographer emailing me

actor blokey wants me to phone him but i am not ready to let him hear my dulcet tones just yet

Remotew · 09/03/2009 21:42

Seems like they are rolling in thick and fast for you Lou.

I've heard from Capt, all is OK. He's calling round 1st thing to do a job for me .

newlysinglemummy · 09/03/2009 21:42

asbm - he is the only guy I have selpt with before that has not been a boyfriend (apart from a really nasty one night stand). And have never got too involved with him as I have always known how he is.

Also he is a lights on guy and would not want the lights off at all, I know this from experience. And i'm sure it will not just be a case of him on top so more scope for saggy belly hanging out...

aseriouslyblondemoment · 09/03/2009 21:53

Hi Eve!
NSM you need to put this out of your mind end of.listen,all of us on here have had dcs some of us have had a few,like myself and Lou
but believe you me he won't be looking at your tummy
Lou please explain here!

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Remotew · 09/03/2009 22:10

NSM, I agree, if you really want to dip your toe back in with this guy don't worry about your post baby tummy, just go for it.

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