Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

oh exciting

has bob got some competition i wonder

RJ still chuckling over your nasty helpful email to diver
wonder if he replies?

one must always keep ones options open! lol

and I so like the seaside.!

well i'm sure that you'll bring us all back a stick of Bournemouth rock
and yes a bit of kisses sea air will put some colour in your cheeks

i wasn't meaning to be nasty. definately helpful

and inthemist - definately think you need to feel some bournemouth rock. lol

well do you think we could share it?

or maybe i wont!

RJ you obv.think along the same lines as me
but i was going to say suck lol.

inthemist I know that we tell our dcs to share
but this is one occasion where we'll let you off

i dont like rock. too sweet and sickly for me. lol

not this type lol.
but are we observing the three date rule here

absolutely not with a guy that hot!

hey, no pressure then!

he hasn't replied yet!

as for the 3 date rule. mmm not sure I could help myself, if the opportunity presented itself, its like we always say, an individual thing! lol

RJ i missed something, what happened with diver, i cant find the posts ad i was offline for 3 days last week. dont tell me he ended up being a twunt?

sorry no three date rule with samename2 I knew from the moment I saw his photo (last July) I wanted to sleep with him. So a long wait!!! and we had been in contact since then.

But I don' t go around making a habit of it IYKWIM - in last 18 years slept with three men (one of which exH of course).

I would just base it on the individual circumstance. There are not many people I would feel that sort of chemistry with tbh!

not really. was a complete gentleman. had a fab time with him. never promised anything. and i never agreed to anything with him. except he did say he would text when he got back to work. but he suffered broken finger syndrome and haven't heard from him.

then you will have seen the bit about the email. i'm not one to text and call and harass. but i thought it fitting.lol

i did expect him to want to see me again. but it's no great loss that i wont(even if he contacts me now i wouldn't as its lost its shine iykwim)

but i had a lovely time breaking my drowt and gained some confidence back i had lost from twunty exp. so all in all......it was an excellent practice run.

could have a been a much worse dip of the toe in the dating pool.

well I hadn't logged into FRD for about 2 weeks and now I have had loads of messages, except from kisses41, twill be a shame if he doesn't reply.

what do you think of this one on FRD caltom?

well as you all know I find it dam right impossible to follow the 3 date rule, just wish I could!

ooh broken finger syndrome strikes again. yes i saw the email part haha.

whats kisses41 look like?!

ooh will look now!
SCL didn't realise that you had!
RJ getting your confidence back is brilliant post exp,i have got mine back despite everything too and dippping your toe in the dating pool can be a pos.thing it has been in our cases i think

inthemist just went for a perve look and can't find him
could you kindly email me his profile?
ta!
SV unless you're on FRD we will need your email add I think

sv, send me your email address and I can send you the photo I have managed to copy from FRDof kisses41 and he is rather hot.
[email protected]

can i post my email here or will i get spammed?

thanks mist! mail on way

it definately has. specially for some of us with abusive/controlling exes who spent past few years making us feel worthless.

it doesn't matter how things finish up with any experiences just now. as long as you enjoy it at the time. and you realise you are a woman and independant and can achieve whatever you want.