Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

i see i have missed a fair old amount of drama and outrage

Hi Lou!
that's an understatement lol.

am i right in thinking that n1 made some comments that caused his balls to retract into the safety of his abdomen, and apologised pronto to save his skin?

YEP!!

so he agreed what he said was wrong or did he remove it only to stop himself being taken down boot alley for a while on the thread?

Hmm only he can answer that i guess
but yes SV was up for giving him a good battering for sure!

well mn isnt exactly a soft and fluffy place, so am sure he knows he was wrong

(whatever it was)

yes but this is the yummy mummy thread isn't it?!
and we're all here to offer support to each other thru the dating minefield jungle
are you still jaded like me?
or doing the odd bit when the mood suits?

am doing bugger all

not sure how yummy mummy = support, but am tired and feeling slow today

night anyway

morning all

dunno whats happening next, not really pushing anything, cant be bothered right now, am not well!

sv, me neither, think I've got the chest infection my dc had this week, so kind of the dcs to share everything with us!

Not a bad idea to slow down on the txting thing, it gives you time to get to know him a little better, if that is possible by txt!

or you could use the "treat them mean and keep them keen" method, you might find that he sits up a bit more if you start taking things slow.

hi lou, hope you are feeling better this morning?

morning all.

for the first time ince i had dc i have not had to get up with them. bliss.

went out with friends in glasgow to a poker party. where we were gambling for mr potato head pieces instead of money. great fun. just a real pita driving 1 hr home at 3am when i was shattered. great to get out though.

right...on to the dating front.

i've signed up a new pof profile and actually put my photo's on it this time.so far i'm msn-ing

oil rig man - who seems nice. very polite and good convo

mirrorball guy - who claims he's up for going on this arail assault thing..but convo is a bit rubbish.dont think i'll be talking to him much more.

i'm exchanged a couple of emails with 3-4 other guys which is some slow burning chat. all seem ok.

and there's

policeman - he's nice. emailed and now we're onto text. was texting him last night. he has a ds same age as mine. but blooming well stays 1hr away.

oh and to my shame i text back marvel yesterday. he seems to have put a lid on the crazy.

sv - glad things with ldr are working out.

inthemist - so whats happening with bob. i scanned abck and you were getting annoyed by his constant text. has he calmed down? or have you had words about it again?

I am taking the softly softly approach with bob, but it seems a bit like hard work to me.

I'm sure relationships are supposed to be much easier than this!

But he does have many good qualities so we will see.

rj, sounds like you have just taken the cyber crown!

Hi everyone, I'm still at my sister's but managed to jump onto her laptop.
Lou - Noted your comments re: support , if you ever need to rant either on here or by emailing me, please do so, always willing to listen and offer my support. Hope you're ok anyway.

asbm - lol, morning, trust you had a good evening?

inthemist - Ignore bob when he pisses messes about, sure he'll soon get the message and either conform or disappear!

RV - Look at you! well have fun and keep us updated. Is 1hr policeman too close to you for comfort?
Anyway will jump on later tonight now, have a good day guys

SV - so LDR has got back in contact, well now you can call the shots, have you decided what to do? don't rush into it anyway, keep him waiting for a response

Monty - How did it go with exp last nite?

AboutEve - what film did you chose? was it a good evening? did he enjoy the film? or run?

urgh mist poor you, i have tonsillitis, feel like total poo.

might try to treat them mean approach!! replied to his email last night but then he texted me, havent replied to the text yet.

RJ - seems like youve got an ok selection there, well for now lol.

policeman is not too far away at all. but not round corner iykwim. will just have to see how it goes.

yes, i shall take the crown for just now. i'm in the mood for it this week. no doubt i'll be handing it back next week.lol.

took my photo off now as i think i have enough to choose from at the moment. i'll work through this lot and see if there's anything suitable.

Hey RJ
glad to hear you have options again lol
cyber crown def.heading your way now
tho SCL might want to wear it for a bit longer
Holly I had a nice evening in thanks watching Enchanted(inthemist swoons!!)with the v.easy on the eye Patrick Dempsey
SV make himsweat wait
I seem to have avoided illness for a long time thank goodness but it is crap esp.when you cant do the whole man thing and take to your bed

Hi everyone.

Holly we had a very nice night. Spent it with DD. Capt had the chance to get to know her better and said she is lovely which is true most of the time. He enjoyed the film for the boats and the scenery.

Gosh RJ you are going to be busy wearing that crown. Have you given up on Diver or just keeping your options open?

Agree with the sentiment 'treat em mean, keep em keen'. At least hold off a little with the contact and don't make yourself too available in the beginning.

Just chilling today. Capt is off on a male bonding session at the pub!! DD is out for the afternoon and better still I've got a day off tomorrow. Yipee.

I am steaming here, the h has wound me up so much I could kill him!

Ok I said it was ok for him to go away for the weekend even is ds was ill, however I did expect that he would bother to pick up the phone to find out how he was doing!!!!

oh no, he has has far to many other things to do, apparently I should have kept more in contact myself with txt updates wtf ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

he is such a selfish, wanker, twat, and a bastard.

There I feel better now

Thanks for listening

Happy for RJ to take the crown. What abt diver or are you keeping all options open (always wise).

I saw exbf last night - had a good time as always.

May meet samename1 show him what he has missed lol. Am curious tbh.

samename2 is still out of touch - I must admit I am confused because I totally read him wrong. I think he is behaving like a twenty something rather than a forty something.

have some light correspondence with the botanical guy - seeems a sweetie.

No one from POF who contacts me seems worth replying to.

and I am normally such a mild mannered lady!!!!!!!!!! lol

I met bob of POF, I wonder if that bodes well for the future!

Inthemist try to chill and not let him get to you,hard i know,but he is a waste of your mental energy just like my exh is
Eve sounding good
SCL!!
yes you're like me-curious
my curiosity does tend to get the better of me tho
at least you have him sussed tho which is good

Oh btw.inthemist
get on FRD andcheck out kisses41
Holly and i did
merely as a window shopping exercise of course!

diver.....hmmm... not heard from him. but i did see he has updated his profile on pof and added another hideous picture that makes him look awful.

he also asked me how to fix his profile when we were first talking. but i said it was fine and lied. lol.

so i have taken pity and sent him an email telling him to use his good photo that the club has on website, and fix all his awful spelling. and wished him luck in his search.

i wouldn't see him again now. as it was very poor manners not to get in touch after we did the deed.

but he was a perfect gent and i really enjoyed myself in ending my drowt. so cant really wish him any bad luck. karma and all.

plus it lets him see i have a profile again in case he thinks i'm moping around pining after him.

been on text to policeman today. he's had almost as interesting and colourful a life as me.