Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

i find it a turn off if a

guy waxes more of his body then me.

owns more grooming products than me.

has more shoes than me.

cant change a light bulb.

there are many more metrosexual qualities that get right up my nose.

p.s exp had all the above hated qualities. lol. i should have known then.

oh, i already have some faults with diver. talks in his sleep. and wants to be a limpet. i may have to have the seperate side of the bed discussion if i see him again.

i.e

this is my side of the bed.

this is your side of the bed.

we may touch. but no intertwining. bear hugging, or doing any cuddling activities that make my face hot. i cant sleep with hot face.

if necassery, individual duvets will be issued.

uggh i hate fellas like that too
David Beckham being the biggest turn off ever
and god his voice as well
Aww.nice that he wants to snuggle up tho
he could have just rolled over,grunted and ignored you
Am hoping that he didn't take your side of the bed here
My exbf did that and it really pissed me off
but there again he was a selfish twat man

glad you had good time rj, he sounds lovely
tho personally I don't mind them a tad metrosexual I think it's being out in the sticks that does it - not that I've ever been out with a metrosexual type. Nm will go shopping ..

ahh cuddling up is sweet, perhaps he's not had female company for ages and perhaps all those lonely nights on the boat has made him yearn some comfort or affection!
yes a bloke that does the back, sac and crack wax is not for me! lol
I don't like men with the following traits - arrogant, stupid, wrapped up in themselves, vain, full of self pity.....

rj, for me sleeping together with oh is half of the relationship!

I find not being cuddled etc much more distressing than being hot.

i think DB is perfect eye candy just as long as he doesn't open his gob.

gosh Holly, I think you have just described my h, how long have you known him!

Inthemist, we must have been married to the same man! lol

a bigamist as well!!

my exH is a bit metrosexual - we used to fight for mirror space, he used to worry about taking a hairdryer on holiday (lol), worry about getting caught in rain in case his hair got ruined need I go on - he is precious and fey!!

Mr Keen asked me to resend my mob no (I haven't)and I haven't been on MSN all week (can't be bothered).

Samename 2 is a waste of energy I know but thinking about it he has been on site since last July - it took us four months to meet. Think he might be a serial ..... let's see.

Meeting exbf sat - he is doing my head in cos he's taken to texting me first thing in morning and carrying on til about 11ish. However I need to tell him that he has to appreciate I am getting one child up and ready to go off to school, another child up and to school, getting myself ready and so on. So if I sound a bit vaugue/forgetful or there are gaps then that's why!!

Ill never understand them as long as I live!!

david beckham does nothing for me. not even a flicker of attraction. he's a big wet letuce.

inthemist. i like to have some points of the body in contact. but at one point that i had to tell him to back off was when he had his arms around me, legs around me and holding my hands. like having an octapus stuck to you.

asbm - he did initially get in my side of the bed. i went to turn lights off while he got in. i promptly shoved him over without saying anything.and he snored so he got suctionned off from his octapus grip and shoved to a position where he didn't snore.

i am very pleased this wont become a regular weekly visit. as much as i like him...i'm not willing to share my bed or time with any man full time. that much i do know. i enjoy star fishing too much.

holly - on the boat their bunks are right beside each other. there's a partition that goes at head to about shoulder , then their bodies are able to be in contact. lol. so they have sleeping bags so no one touches.lol.

back sac and crack is a complete turn off to me.

ninah - i grew up on a farm out in the sticks. think thats why i'm particularly drawn to men who are physically very strong.

ooh and I don't like limpets in bed either.

Sometimes my 7 year old sleeps in bed with me and I spend alot of time manouevering him over to his side of the bed

I didn't buy a biggish bed to end up in about 2ft of space on side!!

ohhh my Exh was a a really heavy snorer and it didn't matter what position I tried to move him into,he still bloody snored. I used to kick him, pinch him, hold his nose but nothing worked, he stayed asleep all the bloody time. Actually I do miss kicking him
David Beckham not my cup of tea either.

my 5 year old DS is sleeping with me atm whilst we're staying with parents, and when it gets to around 5am in the morning I'm sure he's aware I'm getting up for work soon because he latches onto me (while he'ss till asleep_just to stop me from getting up. Its sweet though I must admit.
Oh he can snore quite loudly too so feel sorry for this future girlfreinds!

i can be prone to the occasional snore myself. so cant really complain. if i've had a few too many vino's it ha been known.

both my dc are loud sleepers. snoring, farting, talking in their sleep.

yeah.....and what do you think the relevance of what diver was saying in his sleep?

nothing really as he was sleeping eh?just dreams and dreams don't always equate to what people are really feeling. or do they?

what was saying in his sleep?

and I once asked exH to do something to DCs bike (we were sep at the time) and he said he couldn't because he was going out to lunch and would get his hands dirty

So can you describe diver RJ (sorry if you have done this before)

scl - whats your email. i'll link you to his picture for the club he works for.

holly - loads of stuff. once about him being older?? older than what i've no idea. assuming he means because he's older than me.

em..??trying to remember rest.??

oh and said "i like cuddling", in the middle of sound asleep snoring. i even shoved him as i thought he was having me on and pretending. but nope. out for count.

oh and he ordered me a bombay and cranberry

AngloOz, (pof) has just added me to his favorites!!! Nice boat though, am a little tempted, but he looks too old.

oh and i talk in my sleep. proper conversations. and answer my phone and have full conversations and dont remember diddly squat the next day.

it only happens to me when i'm disturbed from deep deep sleep.

rj, me too on, [email protected], I haven't seen him yet.

inthemist - he's not that much older than you. but in some photo's he looks good for age. others he looks a bit ancient.

would be interesting to know if some of the photo's are quite a few yr old?

its quite common for the photos to be out of date as most blokes think they are gorgeous at what ever age.lol

I have had people asking me if my photo is up to date?

i dont have any recent photo's. the most recent i've just sent you with a link to diver.

i didn't have photo's on my pof profile as i didn't have any recent ones. had my older ones set up as private images though.

nice to meet you rj, the diver does look good, lucky you.

lol. i am chuckling away to myself. as i know you wouldn't post he was a minger as i'm already seeing him. lol.

at least you have a face to the name.

i find him hot is what matters. but i have a very strange taste in men.i know it. and everyone who knows it comments.