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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:46

Elm thought you'd like that

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sincitylover · 23/02/2009 17:00

sorry ASBM it wasn't meant in a nasty way at all!!

I just really dont want to get hopes up for anything IYKWIM. I can't do it anymore. He was very complimentary though. It went really well!!

Don't you like sushi Lou?

ridingjoker · 23/02/2009 17:01

i like suhi. yum yum. i like my fish to wiggle all the way down to my belly. lol

inthemistsoftime · 23/02/2009 17:41

lou, I love sushi, its my shout but get the impression that he likes most types of food, so am going to suggest sushi, no probs if he doesn't like it.

may have to shopping tomorrow for something nice to wear, right now I have an addiction to jeans and I fell the need to buy another pair, and a glam top!

scl, i think you could say that there is chemistry between you?

lou33 · 23/02/2009 19:28

i have a v good gag reflex but sushi pushes that

HOLLY23 · 23/02/2009 19:43

I've never had sushi, not sure I'd enjoy it.
SCL - Think you're playing it right, and I will be using a similar approach with fitguy.
Inthemist - How do you feel about your date?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/02/2009 19:48

SCL i know that you didnt mean it like that
and yes all quiet on the cybermen front here
quite nice to just get on

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lou33 · 23/02/2009 19:58

i cant even be bothered to go online for the dating sites, am still upset by this fall out with my friend

am not sure i am able to continue the friendship based on how i feel right now and that is v upsetting to me

inthemistsoftime · 23/02/2009 20:14

I feel a bit strange, its like I am more nervous for tomorrow than was on Sat, it doesn't make sense.

we have been txting loads, I think he is a really nice bloke, just need to see if he is for me!

oh yes he also has a motor bike which I am very interested in having a go on, and yes it is a motor bike I am talking about. lol

inthemistsoftime · 23/02/2009 20:16

I haven't looked at POF or FRD for about a week now, am dreading it, maybe I'll just delete them all and start again with some new cm if I need to!

HOLLY23 · 23/02/2009 20:41

Inthemist - what else could you possibly be talking about....? lol
Lou, sounds like this guy really upset you by whatever it was he said or did. You can always email me although I know you have RL mates you can talk to as well, but the offers here in any case.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/02/2009 20:50

Lou this all sounds really sad
and yes i think Holly is taking the role of mother on this thread
thanks so much for earlier btw
inthemist yes know what you mean as taking those steps myself
and yes know what you mean re:bikes too

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lou33 · 23/02/2009 20:54

he has said sorry many times but i dont feel he means it iyswim, there is an undertone that he is only saying it to jolly me out of my mood

when i wouldnt answer his call he left an angry vm saying he was getting mad now and trying to explain himself but i just cut it off and deleted it

he said we should make up but i have said i dont know if i can trust him now

even thinking about it makes me tearful tbh

HOLLY23 · 23/02/2009 20:54

Here's my next mother bit, ASBM - thought you were having an early night?

lou33 · 23/02/2009 20:55

but i love bikes

exbf used to have a honda cbr 600

HOLLY23 · 23/02/2009 21:03

Lou - I don't what your friend did. but I know from what your postings on mumsnet you can look after yourself so he must have done something quite bad to upset you so much. Also if he's left an angry vm for you then thats worrying in itself but in addition you also feel that he does not mean his apology so perhaps you should give him a wide berth. He doesn't seem to respect you that much as a friend either, what do you think?

lou33 · 23/02/2009 21:13

he was angry because he called me this morning as if nothing was wrong (we usually speak a couple of times a day and text/msn)andni didnt answer, couldnt face it

then i sent him a message saying i couldnt see how we had anything to talk about until he realised just how upset i was by his actions

was after work he sent me a message saying only "wtf", so i told him

and that was why he rang and was angry, he said he had apologised and started trying to tell me why he did what he did

thing is i know the reasons he did it, what i dont understand is how he could do it iyswim

sounds cryptic, but only because i dont want to type down all the ins and outs of it on here as it would take an age

its enough to say his actions made me feel totally irrelevent as his alleged best friend, and he has done this before to me which i managed to get past, but only because i didnt think he would do it again

HOLLY23 · 23/02/2009 21:17

Mmmm and I guess sometimes when certain things happen it can ruin a good friendship for good, is that how you feel?

inthemistsoftime · 23/02/2009 21:22

lou, did you have all the leathers as well?

quite fancy the idea of a bikers outfit, hark at me!

mind you he has promised to take me on the bike but he has just got a new one and needs to check out the handling first, sounds a bit bloky to me!

sorry about your friend letting you down again, you just need to decide is he worth putting the effort into or not, it might be too hard to give up such a good friend?

inthemistsoftime · 23/02/2009 21:27

asbm, dont think I didn't miss that reference to "taking similar steps as you" come on spill, you are as cryptic as N1

lou33 · 23/02/2009 22:08

i had a leather jacket anyway but i didnt have any riding leathers no

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/02/2009 22:08

oh bugger there was me hoping for an early nite too
am so nosey had to take sneak peek on here
tho really on to print off DS1 homework!
sorry to sound cryptic inthemist i just feel im in dire need of some serious head space

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lou33 · 23/02/2009 22:10

holly, sorry i just saw your last post to me

yes i am wondering if the friendship will ever be the same again

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/02/2009 22:34

aww.Lou that's sad to hear

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lou33 · 23/02/2009 22:56

very sad, i keep getting upset wondering what to do

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/02/2009 23:10

Aww.bless
asbm gives Lou33 a big MN hug
xx

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