where have all the fit and interesting available men gone pt.2

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elmo he sounds as tho he could be quite civilised
are you going to say yes?

I do like a challenge... and are you at the point of beyond curious yet? Should I be holding the suspense? Injecting a tense but exiting atmosphere....and should I be doing that publicly.

Perhaps the question of challenge might be better placed outside of cyberworld. ..... You can draw on more senses that way.

oh cut to the chase N1
if you want to ask me out get on with it lol!

just for a while

cat got your tongue lol!

am waiting lol...
[asbm by now getting v.impatient}

er sometime today might be good lol.

ok.... If I ask you out, I am not rising to the challenge (in my mind) so perhaps I shouldn't ask you out... but I can ask you in.......... do you accept?

depends in where really doesn't it...?

True. Into a RL meet....

ha!
a quick witted response too
my N1
have you been reading my FRD profile lol.

no. I am not on there.

Do i have to register on frd to see a profile?

Mmm... I was thinking... Its better to ask out than in. Asking out has a set of expectations, asking in is more of an unknown. Unknowns tend to be unhelpful.

wow, its finally happened asbm and N1 are THINKING about a meet up in real life. YAY

hope you enjoyed your evening Lou! we are expecting an update.

and well done on getting the job elmo, bit shit about the training but it will be worth it.

I think you may be right Holly, we do like similar guys.

Have been chatting with a few guys online and have been having some fun, its the rl meet ups that scare the pants of me!

PS feeling much better this morning, friend has been deleted from all correspondence and he is definitely off limits even just for an ego boost, he mucks me about to much.

finally happened.....? It might be a little while still. I need to figure out a place of where and when.

N1, gosh you must have really busy life! I do hope you manage to meet up.

Wow when ASBM and N1 chat after the rest of us have gone to bed, its like one of those dodgy late night soaps but without the action! C'mon guys when are you getting together? I can feel the chemistry wafting out from my my screen as I read your messages to each other
Inthemist - I feel the same as you, but only exchanging messages, so not even reached IM stage yet.

Holly, have you been out with anyone of an internet site yet?

n1 and asbm - sorry. but your tying youself in knots for something so simple. why make life so bloody difficult with "challenges". just set a month. then when that month arrives agree a week. and when that week arrives pick a day. voila.

get on with it.

as for confidence. i'll put a less cryptic version.your either

confident and know it but dont show off about it.

over-confident and end up looking like a selfish arse

lacking in confidence in certain scenarios due to fears

or a person who's confidence is boosted by others who make them feel more certain about themselves.

or....have absolutely no confidence as its usually been knocked out of you by someone or something.

lou - have fun.

inthemist - i have only met diver. dont think i'll meet anyone again off internet as i've deleted profiles and i find it scarey.

however i may venture in rl meeting more easily now as the internet thing has given me back a huge portion of my confidence i had lost due to previus relationship.

No I haven't but naturally when I do I will be coming to you for advice, tips on dating etiquette, and that applies to you as well N1 because a male point of view is really useful.

Elmo, like your interpretation, its easier to understand! lol I think I'm lacking in confidence in certain scenarios due to experiences I have encountered so far. I think as far as the ineternet dating goes, I will not include my pic with my profile but will only email to guys I am interested in. I'm just going to ignore the scary ones because hopefully there are some decent guys out there.

ASBM, read Nathans profile again, is it him you thought sounded dodgy. The only bit I think sounded weird is the fact he's not renewing his membership but then maybe he's not had any success with FRD, still think he looks dishy though lol!

morning ladies and cyberman
yes it's amazing what happens after hours isn't it?
personally,i think N1 deliberately waits til he gets me on his own...
inthemist i am glad to hear that you are moving on from your friend
and yes a little cyber flirting is good
take as long as you need to get to know them first before you agree to meet
it's very much your call