where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

yes thats a very good description, I do feel like a grown up and it is good to feel like an attractive women again, I never realized how much I had missed it.

I take every opportunity now to get out and see friends and family, as I had neglected to that for such a long time. The kids dad is coming around tonight to see the sick ds so I am going to take full advantage and pop out for a drink with some friends. I don't like being around when he is, as I have to try hard to be nice to him, for the sake of the children.

ex bf works v long hours/shifts.

No word from Mr Keen so he wasn't Mr Keen after all was he, he just thought he was. I would sort of like some feedback but perhaps should just leave it!! It would have been polite if he had txt to see whether I got home ok given I was driving thru sarf london quite late at night but maybe that's a bit old fashioned. Tho I sometimes do it if I have been out with a mate.

If he had paid for dinner then I would have text him thanking him but as he didn't well haven't!! I couldn't read him at all!!

there you go N1
theres a navigation guide for talk now

inthemist you sound like me!
how does ex feel about the refound you
does he know that you're dating again?
SCL he sounds rude to me
i think he should have texted to make sure that you got home in one piece
courtesy costs nothing
he probably knows that you're not into him
or maybe he is one of those text players who watches their clock until its the accepted time in 'blokey speak'
you are well shot!
funnily enough my exbf works long hours/shifts
hmmmm....

as he leapt from my car he said - I'll ring you sincitylover - yeah I thought!!

Seriously he does work long hours. I know it for sure - is this exbf from ldr?

he had to leap from it as we had a bus close up behind and it was hooting - the drivers round here really don't like it!!

Hilarious in many ways!! I also seemed to be having problems with my reverse gear which made me look a right idiot. Plus I was having a glasses issue - didn't have the right ones. LOL

Am not known as Mr Bean for nothing !!!

what a dick lol!
yes it's mr ldr
well spotted but then i guess it was the somewhat cynical tone of that last post eh?
this man who is keen is local-ish tho
wouldnt rule out another LDR but am actively rejecting all men from too far away
it just gets those old alarm bells a-ringin

oh LMAO!!
pity your reverse gear was playing up you could have finished him off good n proper

ex doesn't know any thing about my social life and I know nothing about his and I think it works for us as it is still so raw for me.

He has had emotional affairs whilst we were married and I still haven't forgiven him for not being honest with me, so I would rather know nothing of what he is up to.

that makes sense
i think it is easier to keep your private life just that
unless of course you reach the point where the potential NM meets the children
then it is just a mere courtesy
my exh doesnt know what i'm up to

i will take your advice on board asbm

good!
thought i was going to have to give you a good talking to
we are all in this together
be brave lol!
and i have MSNd that man
so no lame excuses OR ELSE!!!!!
will keep you informed
lets hope its good news
amusing if not good
and definately not bad

i'm just really tired these last few days, i get apathetic when like that

i know especially when the weather is like this
perhaps we should take SCL's advice and wait til Spring?
i am trying to be positive anyway
and i will give this man a chance
will talk to him first then see

tbh i am not actually actively seeking anyone

if i stumble across one then fine but i am not on the hunt

its often the way tho
i am just very in need of male company at the mo
nice male company that is
i just fancy going out every now and again

am stumbling nowhere tonight , too bloody tired

thank god it's friday then!
hope you have nice relaxing evening
looks like i have more than one option now on the old man front
should be an interesting evening in for me

ooh do tell

i have a couple who want to meet me but not anyone i am excited over really

think i need to talk you young man on holiday when he comes back

By aseriouslyblondemoment on Fri 30-Jan-09 14:13:46 there you go N1
theres a navigation guide for talk now

You lost me on that one.

no pun intended eh N1?!
not sure what there is to tell as yet Lou
the night is still young

no pun intended.

was trying to answer your question about the new look site
but i guess that you have found your way around it now

well what are the options?