The looking after Libb thread.

[Flossam]

Didn't know where to put this, put feel like we should do something to show Libb we care, and to make sure she gets a computer! Love to you libb, hoping you are ok still. xxx

Yes and McTit is doing his Masters in Bristol, apparently

Bristols?! how apt.

Apparently the trauma of not being near his children helps with his poetry. One must suffer for ones art.

Do you think he will be considered a Master after his death? tis very fashionable I hear.

(anyway, this my lamenting thread so do you mind?!)

Everything always comes back to me me me

Sorry hon, lament away

I won't now - nobody takes me seriously anymore! you cow.

Love you.xxx

Congratulations you are the 1000th person to call me a cow this week, you win a lifetimes supply of wit

can I take the money instead? I don't really need my wit at the moment.

Is Bristol a bad place to go to uni? I went to uni there!

Libb, is ff being mean to you?
Hoping to persuade dh to come to Cambridge Folk Festival...
DH says you should go to a solicitor because you're entitled to more than you think (he knows this stuff) - or have you already done that?

I have to admit that I haven't done a great deal yet, work is taking up a lot of time at the moment. What would I approach a solicitor with? I just want the whole thing to be amicable as possible to be honest.

(FF is always mean to me, but I cope - you have to don't you?)

Well, if I may be blunt, to me as an outsider it sounds as though you are the one who is suffering most in terms of your home and money, and yet you're the one with ds to care for.
I'm not suggesting a solicitor's letter demanding a full refund for the cooker or anythimg like that, but you have nothing to lose by just checking with a professional what fair treatment of you would be in your current circumstances.

helsx

Hi Libb, how goes?

Hi Spots, I am okay I guess. Will be phoning the Council tomorrow to jostle a few people, although it is strange at home at the moment. Ex-p and I are getting on really well at the moment, today we had a pub lunch and took DS to the park as it was a lovely day. Very strange.

I know - I still am. Honest! I don't think there is anything in our getting on well - just glad that it is amicable.

I feel quite bewildered . . .

I keep muttering "get a grip woman" to myself but it isn't working.

hi libb. just seen this thread - sorry, i just dont get the time to browse anymore! wanted to send you hugs on this subject. thinking of you lots xxx nice that you are keeping up with us back on may babies despite the heartache xxx

Evenin' Libb. Hope it went well at the Council. I am sure that there will be loads of strange moments of getting on well with exdp. after all, you have a huge great big thing in common which only you two can share - the parenting of your son. If you can recognize the times when you are able to work together on this the wee one will be so much better off. but I know it's so complicated.