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Divvy · 07/01/2009 20:24

My lovely dear step Son, 23, is a single parent. He is finding life quite lonely right now. He thinks he is never going to find the right girl.

He wants to find someone to settle down with and marry. A Family.

He is working full time, so is finding meeting people difficult - like alot of you -His Daughter is nearly 3.

What advice would you give him?

He is - IMO doing a fab job with GD

ps he is a Shane Ward look-a-like...well I think so anyway!

Would you be put off by him being a lone parent?

I will send him along here later for a look at your offers advice

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Ewe · 07/01/2009 20:26

Is he a fitty and does he live in London? If so, point him my way!

Wouldn't bother me him being a single Dad to be honest and wouldn't have bothered me when I was child free either.

Tortoise · 07/01/2009 20:28

I think i would prefer to find someone who is a single Dad. At least they have the same sort of resposibility as us single Mums and would understand that kids come first.
Unfortunatly i am probably a bit too old for him at 30 lol!

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 20:32

That might be like dating your step mum!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/01/2009 20:34

i'm way too old for him too and off limits at the mo
like tortoise the fact that he is a single dad is a big plus in my eyes
has he tried internet dating?

MeNmyGirl · 07/01/2009 20:35

Let me at him!! im 24 and a single mum,...and yeah is he in London he he

Seriously,..iv been a single mum for 2 and half years and havnt had much like with men since,...i would love to settle down with a single dad,..would be ideal!

Most lads these days dont understand the whole single mum thing.....so would be cool!

Whats his number? lol he he xxx

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 20:39

Not in London.

I am sure all these kind words will give him some light

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MeNmyGirl · 07/01/2009 20:41

Oh shame,....i could have snapped him up!!

Goodluck for him anyway!

x

Ewe · 07/01/2009 20:42

Would speaking to other single parents help? Perhaps in a pen pal stylee?

I have been on and off with D/XP (depending on which week you catch us!) for a long while and understand how lonely it can be. Would be happy to be his pen pal! Or would he MN? I find it helpful on nights in on my own!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/01/2009 20:44

seriously divvy has he tried internet dating?
have heard of some sites purely aimed at parents

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 20:44

I am going to send him the link to this thread later, dont think he knows these sorts of places are about.

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MeNmyGirl · 07/01/2009 20:48

Hey, me again,..

I use Plenty of fish, not us for parents, buts its free and seems ok. Also as Ewe said, i agree, with spending time talking,..once dd's in bed i find myself watching tv and sat talking to people on MSN lol.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/01/2009 20:53

would personally recommend paid sites as believe people on there generally less weird?!!
menmygirl thought you had to pay to send and receive stuff on plenty of fish?

MeNmyGirl · 07/01/2009 21:01

No its all free, and so far the men on there seem alright,...im just silly,..dont have the guts to meet up with any of them lol

aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/01/2009 21:05

Really?
might use it next time lol!!
and get out there girl what you got to lose?!!

shelleylou · 07/01/2009 21:29

if he can get someone to have his dd on a friday or saturday night so he can have a night out could meet someone that way. Divvy is he local to you?

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 21:30

yes....and you

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 21:32

oh god..just had a thought.....!!!!

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shelleylou · 07/01/2009 21:32

im in a town near lol

shelleylou · 07/01/2009 21:32

what was that

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 21:33

dont matter

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shelleylou · 07/01/2009 21:34

ok

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 21:35

just had a thought that you know him, thats all

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KewcumbersRoastingOnAnOpenFire · 07/01/2009 21:35

tellhim to try www.singlewithkids.co.uk - not a dating site but lots of sociable meet ups with kids. Quite a few dads.

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Divvy · 07/01/2009 21:36

thanks

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shelleylou · 07/01/2009 21:37

no i dont. I dont know any single dads my age

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