Xp just had a go at me because I won't tell him if I am going out tonight

[IllegallyBrunette]

Tosser

Took the kids to his and the convo went as follows...

HIM - Where have you been ?

ME - No where, what do you mean ?

HIM - You normally get here earlier

ME - We were looking for Ds's game

HIM - Oh, where you been today then ?

ME - (getting pissed off now) Out for lunch (only answered to shut him up).

HIM - Right. Are you going out tonight ?

ME - Might be

HIM - Well are you or not

ME - Why

HIM - Well if Dd (his elder dd) goes into labour, I am the only one who can take her.

ME - Right, well thats unlikely as she is 34 weeks, but if that should happen, ring me and I will either come collect them or you can drop them off. ( I live 2 min away from him)

HIM - Well which number do I ring if I don't know where you are ?

ME - My mobile

HIM - So you are going out then ?

ME - Might be, don't see why it matters

HIM - Cos if I know you are at home I can ringh the landline and save my minutes.

ME - I hardly think ringing and telling me you are bringing them back will cost loads, plus you could just txt me seeing as your txts are free.

HIM - Oh you always have to be fucking funny don't you, why can't you just say if you will be in or out. Tell me what you have planned

ME - No

I then walked off and came home. As I walked out of the block I heard him say to the kids that I weas being stupid and didn't care wether he could get hold of me or not because I was selfish.

I dunno, it might backfire and make him worse.

Plus he'd be constantly questioning the girls then and I don't want that.

I wish he would find someone new, nbecause then I know he would leave me alone.

exh said the same but i would never be drawn into it

let him think what he likes, you have no reason to justify yourself in any way

If exdp knows all about this boyfriend he could at least have the decency to give you the boyfriend's number.

There you are with a boyfriend and exdp isn't even letting the two of you meet!

Fking cheek.

Question exdp carefully - see if he drops any details in, like bf's name or where he works, then you can track down the boyfriend nad hey presto! everyone will be happy.

You have a point fab, how dare xp keep us apart like that, how mean.

With the exception of your beautiful children, he is a waste of sperm.

I did actually tell him last night that I wished he wasn't their father as they deserve so much better.

I meant it too.

oh nutty , i feel exactly the same today, my exh doesnt deserve to have such great kids, and he certainly doesnt appreciate them