My boys are probably going round to my new partners house with me tomorrow for the first time. I guess I should inform their dad this is happening shouldn't I?

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The boys will tell him anyway no doubt, but I guess I should tell him the boys will be meeting him properly, shouldn't I?

I have been with him for 10 months now, but the boys have only really met him in short bursts, so this will be the first day spent together.
The boys are keen & have already told my mum. DS2 can't wait to meet his dog properly!

It would be the right thing for me to tell ex H what was happening, wouldn't it?

at Xenia's ExPillock.

I am so so pleased for you PC. Are you covered for a sitter, I can always collect DSs from school so you have extra time, unless the date includes them too! Just let me know.

The woman last weekend cooked them all lunch and he told the boys he didn't like her. But then he's perverse like that. Used to call me the old trout and other things which were supposed to be so very hilarious when I was 22. So I suppose criticising these women might mean he likes htem. I wonder how he explains to them how he's never had them for a night and never more than 1 - 2 hours at a time?

I don't have a sitter on Wed, as ex H is working 12 hours, so if you could have them for a few hours after school that would be great, KK.

Sounds like you had a very lucky escape with your ex, Xenia! What a total pillock!!

Sorted! I will collect them from school and give them some tea.

Thank you, KKK - you're a star!

HI PC, he grabbed me on the way out to the car! Yet another woman here who didnt take the initiative!

Youngest dd went out with X today and he grilled her on my new man who she told him was wonderful! Ah yes sometimes there is justice in the world.

Excellent, GF! Hope it was a good kiss!

Good on your DD for telling your ex how wonderful your new man is! So pleased you have met someone nice, GF.

You too PC! We both deserve it.

You too PC! We both deserve it.

We do indeed!

DS2 was given a new fluffy dog today by DP, which he is very pleased with, and has taken to bed with him!

He is the lovliest man.

Well I said it twice! LOL but honestly I am really pleased for you.

And I am so pleased for you too, GF, you so deserve someone lovely.