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just fond out he has someone else after all fuming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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taken4granted · 07/05/2008 17:08

My ex arsewipe partner celebrated leaving me and 7r old dd by booking tickets to Paris on the day he walked out then went at the weekend when he told dd he was at a friends. Ive tried being reasonable with him and hes been lyingleft right and centre I cant belive Ive been such as stupid idiot after 13 yrs with him he knocked me back for affection for so long and then he goes and spends more on a weekend with someone than he ever did on a family holiday I definately need to rant as I so want to go round to his place and smash his precious bloody porsche to smitherines then after that Id start on him. How do I grit my teeth and carry on like hes the best daddy in the world to my dd when he is and always has been a lying low life shit? Sorry everyone Im absolutely livid Im sure Ill calm down in a few days!

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VaginaShmergina · 07/05/2008 19:04

Where do you live?, I'm up for a scrap, lets go and torch the Porsche and then cut all of his clothes up and then super glue him butt naked to the top of the Eiffel tower !!

What a complete shite. You must be fuming and who can blame you.

I know it is hard to imagine but your DD will come to know one day what an arse her Daddy is and will see what a star Mummy is. Try and be the better person, as hard as that is.

Is he still living in the family home ?

cosima · 07/05/2008 19:10

he's got a porsche? what a sleeze! Is he Peter Stringfellow? Only cheeseballs have a porsche and a fancy woman, What a cheesy old twat, and a romantic weekend in Paris? Has he read 'I am a Cliche' by taken4granted's dh?

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 19:44

I live nr Guildford surrey! yep Im up for anything that will get him! no he has managed to get himself a lovely 2 bed flat in woking where he holes out no doubt with the slapper - the book is title I am a total shite by Lee H - yes he earns over £110k per yr and the only time he took me away when we were together was for my 30Th to Amsterdam of all places and then I had to Pay £400 for the hotel as he only booked the flights! I should have known then what a waste of time he was - oh with the benefit of hindsight

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LoveMyGirls · 07/05/2008 19:48

You've had a lucky excape there lets hope the next guy you meet is wonderful and treats you the way you deserve!

VaginaShmergina · 07/05/2008 19:50

Bloody hell, I'm in Alton !!!!!!

Lets get the BASTARD.

cosima · 07/05/2008 19:53

can you put some dog poo through the letter box?

lou33 · 07/05/2008 19:54

ooh i am near guildford

VaginaShmergina · 07/05/2008 19:57

This could be interesting

lou33 · 07/05/2008 20:13

i am close to godalming btw

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 20:15

sounds good to me I would love to meet up with other mums sometime and maybe go for an outing to Woking !!!!! either way it would be nice to meet other mums with a sympathetic ear so to speak Im saving the dog poo for fathers day in a couple of weeks - Oh yes he cant see dd in Jun on his saturdays hes supposed to as hes off to see Bruce Springsteen - well I know he thinks hes off to see the boss in cardiff on 14 th Jun as the tickets came here at the weekend - I can see an e bay auction coming up......... win win - I get some money and he gets the chance to se his daughter which should be his priority not some aging old shitty rocker (sorry not a Bruce Springsteen fan!) I gave him the opp to se eher this BH mon but he was busy playing golf thats where his prioirities are him him and him

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lou33 · 07/05/2008 20:27

oh the stories i could tell you about my ex and his behaviour, i would be there for days making your ears bleed

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 20:32

OK girlies Im in Godalming how about a meet up - Im having a student stay with me next week so will hopefully have a free babysitter if you fancy meeting up one night for a quick drink and chat - god this sounds so desperate of me! sorry understand if you dont want to just feeling at a very low ebb - He can go out and shag whatever he pleases whenever he wants and have a life I on the other hand am a mum and never get out as I have dd to look after sounds like we could have a lot of things in common in terms of stories making ears bleed although Id rather have his ears bleed the way Im feeling at the moment many is the time in the last couple of months Ive been desperate for eagle fm to say a tosser has thrown himself under the fast train to waterloo but alas! if you are up for it Ill pst my e mail address I dont think I can CAT whatever that is

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lou33 · 07/05/2008 20:36

i am 3 miles from godalming

you can email me if you like on morticiatsf at googlemail dot com

CountessDracula · 07/05/2008 20:42

A lynch mob!

What fun
Are you going to do for his chav motor then?

lou33 · 07/05/2008 20:49

i never said i would lynch him

i think the best way to get your own back is to show you dont need him, and are getting on with your life

but having a rant en masse is always cathartic

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 20:52

I like the sound of either idea to be honest! any more takers!!! we could get together have a chat and talk about the things we would like to do and then see where it goes!

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lou33 · 07/05/2008 21:00

i got your email and have replied

honestly i really think by showing them you can live without them is the best option

i see no point in wasting time on pricks who have caused so much trauma, all it will do is fuel their ego into thinking they must have been really special to warrant such attention, and at teh same time they will be able to rant on about what a bunny you are

i wouldnt give him the satisfaction

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 21:07

I know I was doing really w ell till i found out today about his little trip and feeling very very bruised at the mo Ill be fine once I have calmed down but god i just want to kill him at the moment! hence why Im here it stops me doing all the things I now I shouldnt!

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lou33 · 07/05/2008 21:10

yes but its all proof in his eyes he is right to go, if you react in anyway but with dignity, however hard it is

plus it will wind him right up

VaginaShmergina · 07/05/2008 21:16

Get yourself a nice "young man" for your DD to tell Daddy about.

I am up for a meet up, would it be Guildford ?

I am [email protected]

taken4granted · 07/05/2008 21:21

I know and Ive been doing really well until today and I wont go off and do something just like the wishful thinking of it all! - I know by being a "better person" is the right thing to do just feel like by being a better person hes got away with treating me and dd like dirt thats all.

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lou33 · 07/05/2008 21:23

he wont get away with it, just dont lower yourself to knee jerk revenge tactics


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taken4granted · 07/05/2008 21:28

I wont not yet anyway! I pity the sad cow who hes with from experience his "nice" side doesnt last long and he doesnt do romance well he never did with me in the 13yrs we were together so she should think herself lucky with a w/e in Paris well I say she maybe and I have had my doubt and a couple of mates are convinced its not a she but a he

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VaginaShmergina · 07/05/2008 21:30

Huge ma hoo sif believer in "What goes around, comes around", he'll get the worst case of knob rot ever and his Porsche will get taken by joy riders and trashed !!

Hold your head up high and do the hardest thing and that is put a smile on your face, a bit of lippy on for the school run and stick two fingers upto the world.

skyatnight · 08/05/2008 09:48

Yuck. Agree with Cosima. He is definitely a smelly, slimey cheeseball(s). Porsche, Paris, Bruce Springsteen - stinks of mid-life crisis to me - huge, huge cliche. Is he losing his hair on his head and growing too much in his ears and up his nose? Bit of a paunch? The other woman is only with him for his money and, if he is as stingey as you say, she won't see that much of it after he has shagged her a few times. It might take a year or two to get over the disappointment but your and dd's life will start moving up and his will still be the sad cliche of the middle-aged man who thought the grass was greener. And please rip up the Springsteen tickets.

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