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taxpayer1 · 23/12/2022 13:14

Just that and has it increased to take the cost of living into consideration?

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WeDontNeedToTalkAboutJamie · 23/12/2022 13:15

£0. I haven't had anything for about 9 years now.

Fahdidahlia · 23/12/2022 16:22

Its a percentage of wages. It can't take into account cost of living as everyones costs have gone up.

Freeasabird76 · 23/12/2022 16:24

Sweet FA in 17 years.

EmergentThoughts · 23/12/2022 16:28

The exact amount calculated by CMS and no more. I know this is much, much more support than many children receive from their NRP, but it still feels miserly to me, to calculate support to the penny as he does. My main career-related goal is to earn enough to not depend on it, as I'm always afraid it will suddenly stop one day, and we need it to pay for childcare.

Bumptious22 · 23/12/2022 16:36

Zero

DenholmElliot11 · 23/12/2022 16:38

I used to get £1000 a month for 3 kids this was 10 years ago.

SofiaAmes · 23/12/2022 16:40

Zero. England needs to fix its child maintenance system!! I live in Los Angeles now and I don't know anybody who's getting zero. They all get something because the non-resident parent gets their wages garnished and/or driver license taken away if they don't pay. And they really do follow up and enforce the rulings.

Notanotherusername4321 · 23/12/2022 16:40

taxpayer1 · 23/12/2022 13:14

Just that and has it increased to take the cost of living into consideration?

Would you expect it to go up with COL? and how much by?

How would that work when the NRP costs will also have gone up? Are they expected to swallow their own increases and cover the RP’s?

TimeToFlyNow · 23/12/2022 16:40

Nothing for years

namechangeymcchange · 23/12/2022 16:41

Never got a penny.

marmaladepop · 23/12/2022 16:42

£500 many years ago for 2 children. Court Order.

DenholmElliot11 · 23/12/2022 16:42

SofiaAmes · 23/12/2022 16:40

Zero. England needs to fix its child maintenance system!! I live in Los Angeles now and I don't know anybody who's getting zero. They all get something because the non-resident parent gets their wages garnished and/or driver license taken away if they don't pay. And they really do follow up and enforce the rulings.

I think the child maintenance system in the UK is fine except for the fucking nonsense about not being able to make self employed parents pay - thats just bizzare in this day and age.

Anyway, I wouldn't expect it to increase due to the COL no because it's based on a percentage of income.

CCIH · 23/12/2022 16:48

£100 a month, (after a lot of convincing)

MonkeyPuddle · 23/12/2022 16:49

£220 a month, one child. Just done as a bank transfer on payday, agreed between us as a percentage from his old job, don’t know what he earns now but I don’t feel any need to increase maintenance.

defi · 23/12/2022 16:52

£100

Lbnc2021 · 23/12/2022 16:55

£600

Usernamesarenoteasy · 23/12/2022 16:57

About £100 a month less than I should get. And he says he can't really afford that now due to COL.

GoodVibe · 23/12/2022 17:00

I don’t understand why it isn’t enforced.

I didn’t ask my Ex for maintenance as I didn’t want anything to do with him, he was an abusive twat.

My son went to live with him at 15 and guess what, Ex went straight to CMS, this was after he hadn’t paid me a penny since DS was 10 years old. For five years I’d done bank work and not been able to afford more than a weekend away while I met every cost of what DS did in life.

CMS look at your prior year earnings and calculate a sum due.

In my case it was almost double the £300 I had agreed to pay before their involvement which is ridiculous, a 15 year old does not cost £600 a month. I should know, he’d lived with me all his life.

My Ex is a spiteful bastard.

So why don’t these absent parents pay?

OneForTheRoadThen · 23/12/2022 17:02

Nothing

HuntingoftheSnark · 23/12/2022 17:28

Like many others, I didn't receive a penny and DD is an adult now.

AbsolutelyFuckingSick · 23/12/2022 17:29

GoodVibe · 23/12/2022 17:00

I don’t understand why it isn’t enforced.

I didn’t ask my Ex for maintenance as I didn’t want anything to do with him, he was an abusive twat.

My son went to live with him at 15 and guess what, Ex went straight to CMS, this was after he hadn’t paid me a penny since DS was 10 years old. For five years I’d done bank work and not been able to afford more than a weekend away while I met every cost of what DS did in life.

CMS look at your prior year earnings and calculate a sum due.

In my case it was almost double the £300 I had agreed to pay before their involvement which is ridiculous, a 15 year old does not cost £600 a month. I should know, he’d lived with me all his life.

My Ex is a spiteful bastard.

So why don’t these absent parents pay?

So you're complaining about having to pay?

Theunamedcat · 23/12/2022 17:30

Zero its supposed to be £180 he quit his job when they told him

Darthwazette · 23/12/2022 17:32

I receive precisely what CMS says I should receive. ExH won’t pay a penny more, down to not providing clothes when the children are with him and needing me to make a packed lunch for the Monday he returns them after his weekend.

Fortunately ExH is quite a high earner but nothing has changed with the Cost of Living crisis. We’ve just had to drop ballet, etc.

GoodVibe · 23/12/2022 17:32

AbsolutelyFuckingSick · 23/12/2022 17:29

So you're complaining about having to pay?

I'm absolutely not thrilled after five years of receiving ZERO when Ex is a higher earner than me, but that wasn't the point of my post if you actually read it.

AbsolutelyFuckingSick · 23/12/2022 17:33

No you said you didn't ask for it. Therefore didn't use cms.

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