Hi girls- I started a thread yesterday about my exp leaving when our baby was 7wks old. (see thread about 'wanting to feel indifferent) if you can be bothered to read it- I got carried away in explaining I'm afraid!
Anyway, I've started a new one because when he brought the baby back an hour ago- he freely admitted that she had been there. He saw no problem with it, and rubbished how I felt about it. It ended with a row, with him shouting about how I'd just 'ruined, what had been a nice day'
In brief- this woman knew me, and although nothing physical happened between them when were together, they were inappropiate in loads of other ways- so I still constitute this as cheating.
The baby is now 5 months old, and he finally admitted 2 weeks ago that they are seeing each other. I'm obviously still struggling to come to terms with it, and just can't help feeling it is so wrong to be taking the baby round there. I am her mother, and how I feel- at least in terms of an adjustment period, should be taken into account. I've been very accomodating with him regarding access- and I'm always considering his feelings, in spite of what he's done. It's just so painful to think that how I might feel about this is far form his mind.
Do any of you think I'm right in how I feel? or should I just let it go?
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pinguthepenguin · 25/11/2007 20:08
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