Can I ask, what length of time it was between splitting with X and meeting someone else ?

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Even if that didn't work out either, how long was it though before you started dating again or even speaking to blokes online etc ??

Just going to get DS1 to bed & have a quick bath, then will sign into MSN. Need a good catch up!

yes was thnking i hadnt seen you online for ages

Haven't been around as much, and had awful weekend with DS throwing up. Also often forget to sign into MSN when I switch my PC on!

well i am about for a bit if you want to get me

Gosh I sound like such a freak compared to you lovely ladies!

Split with exH in May 2000. Met someone in 2001 which entialed DV and all kind of abuses.
Post 2002, I have had 3 flings, tried online dating etc...and am STILL SINGLE 7 years on.
I dunno about you guys, but as soon as exH has the kids, and finds out I have a date etc, he does his best to arrive late, not turn up...and just basically sabotage it. Doesn't matter that I paid out money for babysitters and exH doesn't turn up

It's just a hunch that I have...yet exH has remarried and moved on.

Does anyone elses ex behave in this way??

my exh used to go up to male friends of mine confronting them, saying i was shagging them

we had been split over 6months at this point

i would never confirm or deny it, so he thought he would try and get his own back by telling me stories of his sexual exploits, which i couldnt have cared less about, and when that didnt work he shagged a friend of mine and told me about it

still didnt work

so far since he has come back from thailand he hasnt done any poking about in my private life, but i'll wait and see

he has a baby in thailand as well now, born in may