Have met gorgeous man after my horrible heart-break, but he just want to be friends..

[allgonebellyup]

Some of you may know what a truly horrible time of it i have had lately; split up with ex after months of bickering, decided i wanted him to come back, and i still loved him so much. He said no.
Then just as i thought i was at breaking point he tells me he has met someone else and they are having a baby (after being together 6wks!)

i am/was so so low, contemplating suicide last week, seeing mental health nurse, counsellors,taking ADs etc.

i met a lovely bloke on the internet, met up with him a couple of times , he is gorgeous and being with him has been the only time i have had FUN since the whole thing with my ex.
BUT, he isnt looking for a relationship, just a "friend to have fun with."
He texted me to say he had a great time with me and we should go out again soon.
But as friends i think.
WTF???
Should i let it go before i get hurt??

[allgonebellyup]

He didnt ring from airport anyway, just sent a text on sunday then i havent heard from him since..although obviously he is abroad.
Thats that then?

[Tinkerbel5]

leave the ball in his court, dont contact him and see how long it takes him to contact you, if you dont hear from him say for around 3 to 4 days after he gets back then cut your losses, time will tell if he is worth getting involved with, if you see that its not going anyway with him then dont invest any more time waiting for him.

[allgonebellyup]

yes i was just planning to leave it.
it will probably be more than a week til he contacts me when he gets back, sometimes we have about 3-4 weeks without any contact at all!