Without the backstory as I know I will get slated for waiting a few years before trying to find out where my children are I just want to ask how I would go about finding out where they live? I have no contact with my ex or her friends/family and I don't know wether going to a lawyer would be any good as I'm not sure if they would can or would be successful in finding them?. Any clues? I know I'm in a much better position to be a good father now than I was my ex left.