OK, well I thought this would never happen but since August I've started talking to this guy so it's very early days. It is a pretty big deal for me to be honest. I have been on my own since I separated from my DS dad, it's been over 4 years. I've been content and happy.
I do get offers of dates but I've never felt any connection to anyone until now. And it really scares me as I was so shut off and as I say happy and content.
My problem is I really don't know how to deal with this. We haven't met yet but I feel its getting there and its been mentioned a few times but nothing ever set. I often find myself trying to work things out to be told I am over worrying.
I just can't seem to stop myself worrying and panicking and generally just wondering how black-and-white I should be?
I have been happy on my own, time is very precious to me so I don't want to waste it on someone who doesn't want to get to know me too.
Ultimately I just want to laugh with someone and share abit of life with them if all goes well, but initially I really just wanna laugh and enjoy their company.
How do I move things on or is that down to him? We both have kids who obviously will always come first so neither of us get much free time. But we are both in our mid 30s, him being a few years older than I am so I don't want to feel confused about a situation.
Help me please from someone who is beyond clueless in these situations