Personally I have found, the list judgemental people to be women, some who were single mums.
The senior manager I mentioned before that got paid well, had huge maitence and free unlimited childcare told me I could work from home when ds wasnt able to go to school.
My senior manager said it was ok, because he wasnt sick, he had damaged his elbow and was keeping him off a few days. My manager told me if I felt I couldnt work and look after him, to let him know and he would do it as annual leave. I did more work at home, because I felt I had to prove I was working. Ds was fine sat on the sofa watching TV.
I ended up pointing out the a male senior manager worked from home alot, even though his wife was a sahm, when his kids were sick and that everyone complained they couldnt contact him. And another manager of my level (again male) worked from home during school holidays when his wife was at work, in sole charge if the kids
I suggested that might be sexism. So she let that go. They later told me I could go for promotion because a single parents could commit. I actually could because it offered more flexibility, I would have been running my own diary. In the end I went off sick with anxiety, because she was at me all the time and questioning my ability to do my role 'with so much responsibility at home' my manager loves me and happy with my work.
I am currently going through the grievance process, with his full support.
I help out at DP nieces sports club, fundraise with dps sister (who is also my best friend) trained in first aid, organise matches etc. Lots of women there didnt like me for job real reason. Until it came out that my best friend was also my boyfriends sister the minute they realised I wasnt single, I was ok to talk to. Didny matter that I was devoting g a lot of time to helping out. My relationship status seemed to dictate wether people would speak to me alot.
I do feel very judged. But I feel even worse that's usually by women.