Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

[lilacisinlove]

Yay! I did it again!

oh aurora, can i have some rose please.

wow, i missed alot. have i been busy that many days???

great new about the house keys. hope the move goes well.

mily and lilac - things are sounding good for you. i'm pleased.

where is monty and her story of celtic. i think(think not sure) she said she has known him for years. what i want to know is how did she set about getting on that first proper date? he ask monty or monty pounce on him

flf - TG sounds fun

anyone else wanting to add me to fb just send me a PM. to be honst i dont have the time to fb stalk you lot(never mind men) as i am doing mathcad coursework evertime i come on here, and really shouldn't be faffing about. but i would like it if you contacted and told me who yer fella you are talking about so i can have a quick look and put a face to the name.

flame - what happened with the bloke that sent you the pof msg?

nmn - here you go

i think monty has know celtic a while

the move could have gone a lot better
deep breath ... vimes had the flu so couldn't help bless him, my brother was on a go-slow so we were alternating between me killing him, him killing me and kind of getting on. so slow had to extend time for van til sunday lunchtime, woke up sunday morning with migraine, was ill as soon as i stood and had to work through it (had no choice ), extended time for van yet again, got all but last load done; brother had to go back to manchester for work . extended time for keys monday - the tenants were ready to go in - they had to wait til tuesday afternoon. so asked vimes to help - he did on tuesday (his day off) got two loads in car, then he decides i can sell cooker ( iwa sgoingt o leave it - he crowed all day about the fact i got £80 for it), get the 3sets of drawers and crowed about saving me money again - the git . not sure if this is karma or not but he got blow out on one tyre and ended up forking out for that one plua another one that needed doing anyway (for mot) and tracking for 2tyres. was painfully expensive.

all done. just the reverse process now. been in the new house a week (although i have stayed with vimes a few times) adn i'm still tripping over boxes am sooooooooo not good at moving house

perhaps i should've said that vimes went back to work on the monday and was definitely well enough to help me move

nmn - are you on my fb already?? i think i know your last mn name but not too sure

i am ace at moving house. I have boxed up all the wardrobe. still on hangers. i will literally just open box and handup. kids drawers,etc for chest of drawers will get cling wrapped in a few days time. and just slid back into place.

i seperarte the stuff into boxes of appropriateness. i.e all paperwork will stay together in boxes which can be stacked. then can be left tbh. as i will only keep one box worth of stuff which get used all the time.

books.. hmm.. there is too many of them now. they are one thing which needs to be packed and unpacked. and i cling wrap cd racks too . and usually they wait to get unwrapped . just shoved intop place cling wrapped for a few weeks till i need a cd/dvd out them.

aurora - i have the same surname as kdk/mzd i am on her fb too and have a red jacket on in my profile pic. be down the bottom of her list of friends. but i was sure you were already on my fb. maybe i am wrong and getting you all

i had packed boxes in the rooms that i wanted them in in the new house - didn't quite work that way though

that works with certain things. like utility/cleaning stuff as they would end together in same area. bathroom stuff i stuff in the laundry basket as they can live in there for a couple of weeks without visitors noticing you haven't unpacked

trick for the kitchen stuff i find is make sure the kitchen boxes are small enough to fit into cupboards. then if stick them in cupboards and unpack over the weeks to follow. then place looks tidy. and it doesn't annoy with all boxes lying about

i should have asked you to help me pack/move/unpack

theonly problem is that i have to rearrange everythign now

it takes me weeks to prepare for a move. i will do mine on sat in 2-4 hours for all items moved. i will them probably have it unpacked by the saturday night. i have got an army of helpers too. i have promised food and beer after.

oh and my sis will take the kids,and their toys and bedding. they leave first thing in AM, they go for lunch while we put the kids beds in first, and then they go to house and do that for me to keep them from bugging me. they make up their own beds. and get their own toys sorted. so i dont do kids bedrooms. they are only 3 +5. but if big enough to play with the toys, they are big enough to move them into where they want in their own room.

i put an advert in gumtree for a van to move my bigger items of furniture. i put it will only be around 2 hours work. i'll pay £40. i have loads of offers. just need to pick one...... but some strange foreign person thinks its a barter system. he has offered me £50, and a limit of 2 hours, "if work no done, I go home"..... em.... delte delete delete.

Hey everybody, yes, I've known Celtic for I think 3 years.

I know him even better now

And he is TSOML lolol

Happy Mothers Day to you all.

Sounds like Monty will be waking up with a big this morning!

Off here for a day and completely behind. Gah. Will try and catch up later.

I am back off POF. The Carrot thing has spiralled again and it is just pointless atm. I was out last night, and he sent texts to meet up - he never does that, we don't do going out, we don't do friends meeting etc. He ended up taking a wasted friend home before we met up though. The point about him is though - he doesn't lie. He will cancel things honestly saying he doesn't want to come (ok, last minute at times), he will avoid saying something, but he doesn't lie (bloody annoying at times as the honesty can be a smidge painful, but at least I know when he is avoiding saying something). Anyway. The whole thing with his sister, and now him actually wanting to meet up with me (I didn't suggest it as he always says no) has made me all yearny again. I was doing so well, I had settled into us, I was interested in other men. Now I am back to 3 months ago. Damn him.

Damn PM.

Damn Mr Big.

Damn them all.

monty, yay!
Saw holiday man yesterday. He's very nice but def not available. Good friend material. atm I love being single and can't imagine giving it up. Ever.
nmn barman sounds fun for a fling.

when did the mn logo go red btw? it hurts my eyes

ooh horrible - I hadn't noticed it

i agree it's not very nice

Monty

hi sin how are you?

Fine thanks. How are you doing?
Watching Louis Theroux atm.

i feel bit crap said to dd's dad by text earlier that she wanted to see him and he starts his new job tomorrow - what's the betting that he ahsn't (again) told them there is a court order that he asked for in order to see his daughter more regularly and kept to less that 40% when he was working fulltime last year and still paid only £5 week maintenance? i feel for dd and for myself because will get very little break and no chance now of getting decent job so i can support me and dd (oh and see dp regularly too) better.

so i feel a bit sorry for myself, am sorry it all landed on you sin

and i miss my mom