Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 29)

[lilacisinlove]

Too good an opportunity to miss!

I got dumped by TEXT

What????
Seriously????

Yes seriously im soooo upset but im also angry

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! for you.

angry is good. cleansing. grr though!

Beaut, thats awful. Can understand you being both upset and angry, I'm v on your behalf. That's such a bloody cowardly thing to do.

I know really makes me feel like shit.I think i met the 'promise man'promises everything delivers nothing.Cant believe he didnt at least have the balls to tell me over the phone anythings better than a fucking text.

This is how he put it.Has been off with me all week and started off by saying i love you you know.So i replied well you wouldnt keep being off with me if you did either you want this or you don't.He replied well i don't and i'm sorry for that.

How mean is that

What??? But he started off saying he loves you??
Stay angry. No one deserves to be treated like that. Especially with what has happened between you two in the last few week.
I'm angry for you.

the cock just had the audacity to write on my fb wall it didnt take you long to take me off

i do try to be ladylike but what a fucking twat.

snapespeare - seconded from me.

He's got some front to write on your FB as well!

Beaut, just seen this on fb, so sorry. You have changed your status, now delete and block him. He has messed you around enough since he moved.

Stay strong, I know it's hard but being apart is a hugh test and changes the dynamics of a relationship. It would test the most established couple and you hadn't had chance to build a solid foundation.

I'm supposed to be seeing EV next weekend, seems a long way off and am not sure tbh, think I will give it one more date.

Mini crisis seems to have almost resolved itself. Had a mildly stressful weekend. So tempted to go back on the smokes but have resisted. Thought it was meant to get easier.

well done adamschic, been thinking about you this weekend re: mini crisis...i go back to the marlby lights at the slightest provocation. then have to give up all over again...

Beaut, I would delete and block him from FB now as well tbh.

Adams glad to hear mini crisis sorting itself out, well done on not smoking through it as well, is a v good sign if you can resist temptation to go back to it even during a stressful time. Is anything in particular making you unsure about EV?

One of my prospective dates has told me how he's not seeing/messaging anyone else....I didnt ask, he volunteered. Is that a bit odd? Or just honest? Am so picky the slightest thing puts me off, if you all tell me its ok I'll be fine :)

Beautician..I'd delete that and block him too. I would be fucking fuming if someone posted that on my wall for all too see.

With EV, I'm not sure there is enough of an attraction, one can never tell until you have done the deed .

Sponge, sure it will be OK, stop nit picking before you have met. Not sure why he volunteered the info, could be that he wants you to know that he is making an exception for you and that he isn't a prolific dater. I'm not, and I always make it clear, usually when I meet them and try and judge if they are which would put me off.

beaut what a git. i definitely agree that you should block him and report him for abusive comments

beaut, I'm astounded and sad for you...agree be angry too, though. There are some people you are better off without, and sadly he has turned out to be one of them. Better to find that out now than to have moved you and the DC up there and THEN find out.

Yay for sponge 3 dates wow

Beaut am for you, what an arse!!

I'm not dating anyone else apart from Mr GW, but I'm not sure I would tell him unless he asked? I have tried dating more than one man at a time and I just cant get my head round it, it causes me too much stress

Adam - stay off the smokes - not good for you!

Flame - sounds like you might need an early night, it might all look better in the morning

thank you

aurora, love the way you waited a whole 16 minutes before bumping it!!

Love the idea of those blinds, could do with one in my bathroom, which has no blind at all! But the way I see it, if you can see me in the bathroom you are either trespassing, or you might be the local gamekeeper

i forgot about it lol

aurora, ive posted on your other thread...found a site which might be useful :)

elasta, btw I would raise the subject of multiple dates with Mr GW...I would certainly want to clarify it before taking any clothes off in front of someone. From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he would mind being open about it. Hopefully he has nothing to hide and will say he only has eyes for you :).