Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 26)

[BlackFLAMECandle]

Oooh brand new thread!

Lol Lou :o

Oh Flame, I hope you really are OK with all this. I personally wouldn't want a man in my life, to the extent that he is in yours, who didn't think I was magic and was actively looking for someone else.

I'm not saying I would fall out with someone over it, I would and have kept in touch in similar circumstances, no big deal to me as I seriously didn't have any feeling but just enjoyed their company from time to time.

I think it would be different if I had the magic for him, but as much as I care about him, the whole idea of him having a girlfriend and just being my friend seems perfectly normal to me and doesn't make me feel the slightest bit miffed.

Does that make sense?

I didn't realise I felt like that until this morning. (He didn't come last night in the end - this was all after a decent night's sleep and period finally turning up)

I do think he is absolutely fabulous, not denying that.

What is the "wants to meet you" crap on POF? Is it the equivalent of winking??? Why not send a message?

The guy does have v nice arms...

(Oh I wouldn't be willing to settle full time no magic btw even if he wanted to. Realised I didn't write that right).

I really should learn to put everything in one post!

I agree, why not send a message. I've clicked on who wants to meet you and gone through a few, you say yes, maybe or no. Mine were all no's, very depressing.

Aww Just been going through the meet thingy (oddly addictive clicking pictures ) - found Carrot's best mate :o

(I had to click maybe - even though I know he would never know, I didn't have the heart to click no)

How was the meet last night? Hope y'all had a fabulous time.

Now, I have a date tomorrow. Fucking hell! Just a coffee but still. I have forgotten what to DO.

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tis next week . or i missed it

woohoo for date! details woman!

Well, it's just a lunch date...coffee, see how it goes kinda thing.

Not that it will be going anywhere other than coffee because I have mum stuff to do.

VonUberwald did you used to have a different name? Just wondering cos you seem very familiar!

Good luck for tomorrow Janos, report back.

lol sorry its flame

New name :)

God, hard enough to keep up with all the shenanigans without all the name changes - some of us (well, okay me) are nearly senior citizens remember!

Sponge - are you there? Have you heard anything???

Lol sorry. Felt odd being Carrot's woman. Feel like I am a wing woman at the moment - want to go out on the pull together. Is that weird?

you want to go out on the pull with carrot? Yes, to me that's weird - but hey ho, who knows? Maybe it'll catch on! Sort of mixed double dating ...

Lol. He was so sweet talking about wanting the magic and everything today. I feel like I want to find him a nice woman. Or to be in a parallel universe where I don't have 3 kids and a husband

ww are you flame/vu?

carrott sounds a bit of a headfuck! Im not fully up to speed with it but does he want to meet someone who doesnt have dcs? and do you think your feelings are stronger than his?

I have a nite off from dcs. watching xfactor.

and have been for drink with wh.

Really glad you have come to a decision now flame. You seem much more free :)

Yup that is me.

I think until he met me he didn't know either way about the kids thing, but yes, now he wants to do the marriage/kids thing with someone starting too. I think our feelings are about the same tbh. Would both happily be together constantly, but it just isn't enough. Not feeling the jealousy was a huge thing for me. It isn't in my nature not to be possessive and jealous.

Ahhh ok :)

I've been babysitting my great niece tonight, she is fast asleep in her pram. Her mum and dad are picking her up when they come back from dinner. We were quite prepared to have her for the night but hey ho!

Watching Armstrong and Miller, it was really funny last week but not this one.

Baby has gone now, so opened a bottle of coke to add to the voddy and it exploded.

Nowt going on with me and men, must admit to feeling very frustrated atm. Not like me at all. Been hanging around POF and was chatting to someone that I chatted to 2 yrs ago. Doubt anything will come of it, he disappeared on me last time.

Flame at you going out with Carrot on the pull!

Very [jealous] of your night out next weekend. If I was nearer I would join you. If you do another one there is no reason why I cannot get down to London with enough notice, but Lou will have to make it if I'm travelling from oop north! Don't forget the pics, this time make sure it isn't on video mode, however, it was lovely to see you all animate last time, brought the meet up to life.