ok, time to resurrect this thread, or start another?
anyhoo, been v busy in RL, as it appears we're applying for a Green Card. Working our way through all the paperwork atm. Today we did medicals & i have had 4 needles stuck into my arm, so feeling a little sore & achey.
Mainly we're applying for the green card as it means i could work & dh change jobs easily - his job is v unstable. BUT it still feels like we're making things here more permanent, and I'm not sure how i feel about that.
also, me not working has made me feel a bit like i'm on an extended holiday. the prospect of a job rather takes away from that feeling. after all, what was the point of making this move & missing our families, if we just end up both working & never having any free time? (apart from dh losing his job in the UK)
real life seems to be looming.