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Pamela thread 5 - Bile Duct Cancer, chemo begins

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WilsonMilson · 12/07/2023 15:51

New thread - can hardly believe it!

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HelpIcantfindaname · 13/07/2023 10:35

Hi Pamela,

So happy to hear you had a better night. Getting some sleep really helps & it's great to hear your pain was better

Like you, I notice more things in nature now. That's probably why I've started gardening & collecting houseplants since my diagnosis.

I was just hanging out some washing & saw a beautiful butterfly on the buddlea.

Sending love & strength. Xx

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StillWantingADog · 13/07/2023 10:37

Hi Pamela
read your threads but ashamed to say not previously posted
anyway just came on to say so pleased you are finally getting the treatment you need and are feeling very positive.
your dh sounds terrific.
you look fab in the photos too. Sending you all the positivity in the world.

sayitkindly · 13/07/2023 10:38

Good morning lovely lady, so happy that you had a much better night, and are feeling better for it.
keeping you and your family in my thoughts and sending as always much love, and positive healing energies to you all

Blogswife · 13/07/2023 10:45

Missed your updates last night due so just catching up - you’ve filled me with joy Pamela , what a brilliant few posts ! So glad chemo has begun and you are feeling so positive .
You are all in my thoughts 💕 xx

Summer19 · 13/07/2023 10:57

Pamela, when you get back on your feet, you newt project should be a book or some short articles. You write so beautifully. Faith, hope and love today, I hope it's a good day 🌻

Iloveringos · 13/07/2023 11:01

Sending you lots of love xxx

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Missingmyusername · 13/07/2023 11:10

@CrotchetyQuaver so cute!!!!!!
@Zippedydodah my dc did that to our lab once, who patiently sat there whilst she drew on some lovely blue eyeshadow eye brows and red lip stick 🤦🏼‍♀️
Love the animal photos- especially the dog with no eyes- bless!

Looking forward to your updates Pamela- hope all goes well, glad to read your night was so much better.

dontdillydallytoolong · 13/07/2023 11:14

So happy to hear that the treatment has started and you are in less pain. xx

ThursdayFreedom · 13/07/2023 11:19

Pamela

so good to hear you had a decent night!!

could you cajole them into staying another couple of nights to get some sleep, being in a hospital bed & having a nurse to help you get comfortable rather than a spare bed in a friends house & no nurse! Will you have to go upstairs to bed at your friends??

thinking of all the little Pac-Man men rolling around munching on all the cancerous cells!! Gobble gobble yum yum

Rainbow1901 · 13/07/2023 11:20

Hi Pamela

It's good that you are making notes and I would suggest that you keep a notebook by you anyway.
Write in it when you take your meds, how you're feeling, the time etc. I found this really useful for the oncologist/doctors to see what's going on and when because it is so easy to forget these things when your head is mashed from tiredness, pain, effects of chemo or whatever.
I'm glad to see that you got both got a decent spell of sleep - it does make it easier to cope plus it's great news that your pain is being relieved for some of the time.
You are doing just great Pamela!! 😸xx

CatkinToadflax · 13/07/2023 11:41

Sending love, dear Pamela x

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Mojo777 · 13/07/2023 11:44

So very happy to hear your night was more restful. Good wishes are sent to you for whatever today holds. 🙂 xo Mojo xo

Irritatedmum · 13/07/2023 11:49

Wow Pamela, things have really taken a turn since I last checked yesterday! Still sending out love and prayers for you, and I’ve got literally everything crossed as well. Medicine is an absolute miracle and I’ve got faith that you will get there. You’ve got the power of 1000s of us behind you too!

daisies30 · 13/07/2023 11:51

So brilliant to hear you had a good sleep Pamela ..keep going, you're doing great xx

Alargeoneplease89 · 13/07/2023 12:06

Glad to hear you had a better night's sleep- always good when your fave nurse is on, everything feels less tense as they just know the little things.

BrotherViolence · 13/07/2023 12:12

I haven't commented previously but have been reading and thinking of you, Pamela. You're all doing amazingly and I'm so glad you've been able to start chemo. Here's to things continuing in this positive direction!

Bossyboo · 13/07/2023 12:21

What a great update to read. So happy you had a better night and I hope and I pray this continues. Thank you for the reminder to look for the beauty in our days - I'm guilty as are a lot of us I'm sure of just trying to get through the day and the problems we encounter. It's good to stop and appreciate things , even the smallest of things. Keep going you're amazing 🤩

Love Hope and Faith

Xxx

IMustDoMoreExercise · 13/07/2023 12:22

So pleased that you had a much better night Pamela.

❤❤❤

VariantHela · 13/07/2023 12:34

Excellent update, we are all rooting for you. Went back to our wildlife park so here's a penguin x

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Healingvibes · 13/07/2023 12:35

Another lurker here ... or, as I prefer to say, 'supporter'. Along with so many others, I've read your posts from the very start and have prayed for and thought of you several times a day. My heart goes out to you, Kerr, Jacob and your Mum.

I've hesitated to post this photo of our Chemo Cowboy Kid (from a long time ago) but your mention of steroids took me right back to when my DS was going through his long treatment. [I'm thrilled to say that he's now 18 and doing so well.] I hope this photo makes you smile as you have made me smile. You have also made me cry but, in the circumstances, I forgive you for that!

Wishing you much pain relief and all the very, very best that the universe can give you. Faith, peace, hope and love to you, amazing Pamela.

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frecklejuice · 13/07/2023 12:35

Hi Pamela, just caught up and it's so good to hear that you had a better night with less pain ❤️ Ive never spent so much time thinking about a stranger on the internet, I was even telling a couple of friends about you yesterday 😂

uncomfortablydumb53 · 13/07/2023 12:37

Hi Beautiful lady
I'm so relieved your pain is under control and both you and Kerr had a better night
May every day be a better day
Much love
Judith in Wiltshire

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uncomfortablydumb53 · 13/07/2023 12:37

Caleb, my snow dog

Frazzled2108 · 13/07/2023 12:45

I'm so pleased to read a positive update, Pamela. As always, sending love and good wishes to you and your family. You are always in my thoughts. xx

DollieBantrysPantry · 13/07/2023 13:10

Hello Pamela have just caught up and really pleased that you slept more last night and your pain is more under control, hope all goes well this afternoon, sending you love and a gentle hug 💞

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