Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer (last thread pancreatic and liver)

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Hi everyone, I’ve created a new thread as I am overwhelmed to see that the last one is full. You have all filled me up with your hope and encouragement. I’m keeping going as long as I possibly can!!

Wrapping my arms gently around you Pamela
I hope you hear from palliative care very soon
Love, strength and peace
Judith from Wiltshire

I have never before been so moved by a MN thread. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. I've been in tears reading your earlier posts as you spoke about your worry for Kerr and Jacob above yourself.

Sending you love, strength and prayer. I'm not religious and seldom pray but tonight I will be doing for you.

You are a fighter ♥️

Sending you love and strength xx

Hope you are having a sleep. Know that people all over the world are holding you in their thoughts.

Sending love and hope ❤️

Cancer can fuck right off

💜💜💜

Pamela Kerr and Jacob.,,
It's a bitch love x
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I was just thinking about you Pamela... stumbled across your 1st thread on here, so I'm very glad to find your new one here.

Sending so much love and strength and hand-holding your way. Your pictures of your family are absolutely beautiful, as are you. Glad you're home and hope you're feeling stronger soon.

What a brave, beautiful lady you are Pamela. Life can be so cruel. I hope and pray that you can get the treatment you need. You and your lovely family will be in my thoughts.

Hoping beyond hope, that tomorrow is a better day for you, and you get the treatments you deserve, very soon.
love to you and your family x

Just come across this thread and read back through the messages. Shocked and devastated. Thinking of you and sending you so much strength x

Sending you and your family strength Pamela x

Pamela, sending all the strength and hope I can your way.

I could feel your resolve building from your last message - getting strong enough for the stent is the next thing to focus on. Having read your comments from the beginning I really believe you can do this.

Kerr and Jacob sound wonderful - you couldn’t have a better team on your side.

Pamela you absolutely beautiful wonderful woman I also have never ever been as moved by anything on here as I have with your story. I am sending you and your family so much love and prayers right now xxxxxxx

Hello Pamela, so glad I found your new thread. Have you had any luck with accessing the GP or hospice services? Xx

thank you for sharing your beautiful family photos x

Hi Pamela, I’m afraid I can’t offer any words of wisdom but just wanted to show solidarity as my father was diagnosed with cancer just a few years ago and I remember vividly the torment it threw our family in to. Sending love and my very best wishes to all of you.

Sending you my thoughts and love too. X

Praying for your stent OP ASAP xx

Thinking of you and your lovely family. Sending so much love x

I posted above but just read your thread fully. You are beautiful and your family is lovely. Such a brave lady. X

Pamela ❤️❤️❤️ a true queen, with the most wicked vocab and humour. Keep fighting ❤️

Hi Pamela, I've only found both of your threads tonight but it breaks my heart reading what you, Kerr and Jacob are going through.
Your family is beautiful, I have a daughter the same age as Jacob who is just beginning to drive too and find her way in the world, I hope he enjoyed his work experience. My daughter has just started her 2nd year as a combine harvester specialist agricultural engineer. How brave Jacob is to have gone and sat those exams, and that bravery and strength must come from being surrounded by security and love.
That love you carry for your family is so evident in your posts, you are dealing with so much, yet in every post your selflessness and the worry for your family is evident.
I wish I had words of comfort, I wish that this wasn't happening to you but please know you have made an impact. Strangers now know your story and you have raised awareness for this awful disease. I'm sending you so much love, positive thoughts and healing. I'm just sorry that's all I can offer you xx

Pamela, I have found your story tonight.
No words enough to express my admiration of you & your spirit.
The photos of you (Hello Gorgeous!) & your lovely family are special - thank you for sharing your happy times with us.

Also your writing is so clear & expressive, it is an oddly shaped pleasure to read your notes from these darkest times of your life - such a cock-eyed compliment😉.

For all of us no matter what tonight holds & tomorrow brings: Carpe Diem & tell those who you love that this is so.

Ah Pamela I'm so moved reading your last thread and this one. You and your family are truly beautiful.
Fuck off cancer.
Hand hold and so much love to you and your lovely husband Kerr and your wonderful son Jacob. Honestly can't imagine what you're going through. I have two sons aged 4 and 1 and reading this just makes me want to snuggle up with them forever.
💕💕💕

Hi Pamela, delighted to hear you're involving your hospice now. Those people are wonderful and will know how to get your pain and nausea under control. As to the rest, finally a diagnosis. I suppose better late than never, I just hope you're well enough to get to the appointment and that you get good news re treatment options. At least you're home now and can rest.

You are a truly beautiful family, gorgeous photos!

Penny in the New Forest xx