My son may be dying

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Just that.

He has cancer, they have not been able to control it.

They have given him one last chemotherapy to see if it can turn a corner but his body may not be able to tolerate it and it may not work.

We have been told to prepare ourselves for him to deteriorate suddenly.

My husband can't be with us because my son also has Coronavirus so we are in isolation and he is with our other son.

Sending you both some strength and lots of hugs ❤️ I agree, your son sounds wonderful.

I'm so sorry your lovely boy and you and your family have to go through

He sounds amazing if anyone can get through this it would be him, sending you strength and positive thoughts.

i’m guessing it’s difficult for you talk to anyone in the phone while your son is there. You could ask for contact details of the hospital Chaplin (email/ text) it doesn’t matter if you a religious at all. It’s someone who knows the hospital and has been with parents facing this, they might be able to support you via text and even navigate practicalities of new clothes etc

I don’t have any words but am sending you so many thoughts ..Xx💐💕

He's still really poorly and is uncomfortable.

This is all too much.

Oh no, my heart really is hurting for both you and your poor boy. I truly hope you get some positive news today.

There is a global meditation happening 3.45 am right now. You might like to take 5 mins to tune in and take comfort from the combined positive healing energy. You are doing the best any mother could do. Your love for your son comes out in your posts. I'm sending him healing thoughts.

The very best wishes to your brilliant boy 💐

OP, I hope dawn brings some positive news and some relief for your boy

You and your son were first thing on my mind this morning. I hope you both managed some rest and his pain subsided.

Sending you a virtual hug.

I hope things are looking better today for both you and your lad.

Just checking back in. Did you get any sleep?

Your posts about him yesterday made him sound wonderful and that he's continued to live his best life despite everything. You should be so proud as you enabled that.

I wish your husband could be with you too. And I really hope someone gets you a lovely cup of tea this morning.

You are fantastic and your son sounds brilliant.

Oh I’m so sorry your ds is struggling. I’m really hoping for a better day for him. Sending you love and hugs. X

I'm so sorry your family is going through this. Sending you so much love

I am very sorry you are going through this. Prayers and strength to you.

Morning, OP, how was your night? Did you get any sleep? Is he more comfortable?

Another sleepless night but hopefully things will be calmer today.

I've texted the chaplaincy, even though I'm not religious. I'm not sure they can more helpful than Mumsnet!

I'm also terrified of getting Coronavirus. DS1's symptoms began a week ago, even though his symptoms have been very mild, so I still have a week to go until I'm all clear - but being locked in a room together is not exactly social distancing.

Thinking of you both today. You must be so tired. I hope you get some relief today. Your poor boy. My heart goes out to you both.

You & your son were the first thoughts on my mind as I woke just now. Good idea re: chaplaincy, take support wherever you can find it. I hope you both have a better day, I'll be thinking of you & checking in. Sending strength & a handhold xx

The chemo is not having an effect.

They have said that it does act over a period of time but today is day 4 of 4 and after that they can't give him anything else for 7 days.

I am so sorry to hear your update. My thoughts are with you at this horrendous time. Wishing you all the strength possible.

So sorry to hear that. Are they able to give him anything to help with the coronavirus - I know there's no cure yet but some countries have reported some meds have helped in some cases. What type of cancer is it? Is there anything we can help with? I wish I could help you both, I've got 2 kids a similar age and I really wish I could think of something. I'm glad he has such a lovely Mum at least.

Sending thoughts and love, xx

Just came to see how you were doing, you’ve been in my thoughts.