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Not a good day. leukaemia diagnosis.

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biscuitsandbandages · 14/04/2014 03:44

When I woke up this morning I was a mum of 3 with an 8 week old baby.

Now im a cancer patient on thr coronary care ward.

This cannot be happening to me.

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mumofthemonsters808 · 15/04/2014 21:30

No words of wisdom but just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and your family.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 15/04/2014 21:35

so sorry to hear that, biscuits Sad

i'm away now but back Å?atÄ? next week and London based. again a stranger but if you need anything at all, do let me know. Thanks Thanks Thanks

CrystalTits · 15/04/2014 21:36

Biscuits, I'm on the central south Coast and would be happy to help in any way I can. Please PM me if there's anything I can do to make things a little easier for you. Please.

Thinking of you and of Brave.

felttippens · 15/04/2014 21:37

So sorry to read your news, can't imagine x

TotalBlamBlam · 15/04/2014 21:38

Hi Biscuits, so sorry to hear this. I'm another holding your hand

spiderlight · 15/04/2014 21:45

So sorry - what a hiodeous shock for you all :( Sending you a virtual hand-squeeze and wishing there was something more useful I could do.

EvaBeaversProtege · 15/04/2014 21:47

I'm nowhere near you, but I'm wishing you every good thought & wish xx

My sister has just beat breast cancer, she too vowed to get through it for her children, and she did. Just like you will xx

5madthings · 15/04/2014 21:50

Oh biscuits.

A lurker wishing you strength. I am in Norfolk so if I am close enough to help just shout, or pm!

Honestly if you need a food for you or some treats for the kids, anything xx

PhoebeMcPeePee · 15/04/2014 21:55

Oh biscuit I am sorry & another offer of help if you're in Kent near the new hospital.

tinypumpkin · 15/04/2014 22:04

Another one popping in to wish you well and hold your hand. Keep talking, we are rooting for you and your family right now.

NuzzleandScratch · 15/04/2014 22:06

So sorry to hear what you're going through, praying for you. Thanks

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 15/04/2014 22:16

Hey biscuit, still here, how's things? Smile

QOD · 15/04/2014 22:29

Big big hugs coming your way, keep posting x

fatedtopretend · 15/04/2014 22:29

So sorry biscuit, I'm in the north east so not nearby but please do take people up on offers of help-even if it's getting a book delivered once a week or a letter from someone so you have someone I write to to vent. Sometimes it is easier with a stranger.

Here holding your hand x

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Nocakeformeplease · 15/04/2014 22:36

I'm so, so sorry biscuits Sad

My 4 year old DS has just completed treatment for a kidney tumour. In my experience once you have a treatment plan etc it does get a tiny bit easier.

I'm so sorry you can't be with your beautiful babies at the moment, that must be desperately hard. I am in Surrey if I can be of any help? I really mean that, so please don't hesitate if there is anything I can do xx

Twighlightsparkle · 15/04/2014 22:38

Another thinking of you.

Xxx

Bumbershoot · 15/04/2014 22:45

Biscuits that sounds desperately hard. PPs are right though - you may well be allowed home sooner, they tend to give you an outside estimate. Can you have visitors? Thinking of you.

SweetestThing · 15/04/2014 22:46

Biscuits, I am in Surrey and my car can drive itself to the Royal Marsden in Sutton, if that is where you are. I can get to London easily too so please, please say if you need anything. I didn't have chemo (surgery and r/t) but I know how it feels to be given a cancer dx and the way your world suddenly changes. Please do accept all help offered, whether on here or in real life. Thinking of you as you deal with this.

almondfinger · 15/04/2014 22:49

Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. x

Mumsfret · 15/04/2014 22:54

Thinking of you, biscuits.

Your post really struck a chord. As the result of an ongoing chronic condition I suffer from, I have to go into hospital for major surgery in the coming weeks and am dreading leaving my children (incl 15-wk-old baby) at home, especially as baby appears not to want to bottle feed despite strenuous efforts to prepare her Blush I know only too well how long term illness can shatter hopes and dreams, but hopefully it will only be temporary and you can look forward to a time when you are well again. They're onto it now. Let them treat & make you better. Hospitals can be anxiety inducing and lonely places. Do make use of the marvellous support offered here on MN, and any that is offered elsewhere. Take up offers of help. Talk, talk, talk - if it helps. You totally deserve to have all the support and love you can surround yourself with.

I'll have you in my thoughts & (if it's ok with you) prayers too ??

Theonlyoneiknow · 15/04/2014 23:00

Another one with a hand hold here biscuits, sorry to hear your bad news has been confirmed. Hopefully now you can get a treatment plan so can tick things off to getting back home with your family xx

NearTheWindymill · 15/04/2014 23:01

Good luck but you can fight this. I know you can.

northender · 15/04/2014 23:25

Just wanted to add a message of support for you. I can only imagine what you're going through right now x

biscuitsandbandages · 16/04/2014 01:08

I need to go to sleep. DH has gone home with our baby. He is in pieces. I have taken the cowards way out and posted a Facebook status explaining what is happening now that our family know. I can't face having that conversation any more right now. Talking about it s too exhausting.
Chemo tomorrow and the search for positive T cell ALL outcomes continues. Thank you all for being my back up crew and my heart goes out to those of you who are having to take this awful journey too. X

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