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Wrongly accused of shoplifting and harrassment.

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JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:13

Ive been maliciously accused of shoplifting. By a woman in a well known news store currently undergoing a name change. This was last month on Saturday 26th July. This was followed by someone posting false accusations about me on social media Ive reported it to the police under the Malicious Communications Act AND IVE BEEN GIVEN A CRIME NUMBER It escalated on Sunday 17th August where a man ive never met before "confronted" me in another shop (supermarket corner shop) calling me a shoplifter and repeating the same shit from last month. Ive updated the police as its harassment. Ive never shoplifted in my life. Ive got piles and piles of carrier bags from this news store and have spent a lot of money there since my teens (im now in my fifties) I was ringing solicitors yesterday but havent found one to handle a case like this.

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SirBasil · 19/08/2025 14:22

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:18

NOTE.........it is an offence under the Malicious Communications Act to post on social media false information or info you know is false. And she KNOWS its false because a. none of this happened b. the cctv of this DOES NOT EXIST because none of it happened, and she has peppered replies to her slanderous post with laughing emojis She finds it entertaining and funny.

did you report it to the platform and tell them to take it down?

PencilsInSpace · 19/08/2025 14:22

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:19

Hi @PencilsInSpace i remember you from the political threads Hope you are doing ok Flowers

Ive been here 14 years on the 25th of this month.

Blimey, that long!

I'm bimbling on OK, about to become a granny 😃Hope you get this sorted out.

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:24

PencilsInSpace · 19/08/2025 14:22

Blimey, that long!

I'm bimbling on OK, about to become a granny 😃Hope you get this sorted out.

Oh congratulations Its nice to get some good news. Flowers 😊

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murasaki · 19/08/2025 14:24

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:22

Well i certainly wont be going paperless with reciepts after this.

Agree with that, quite aside from not wanting email spam, I've got the receipt in my hand when I leave the shop, should anything ever happen.

NaranjaDreams · 19/08/2025 14:27

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:40

I wasnt acting dodgily. I was standing by the magazines when she came up and accused me of shoplifting on a previous occassion, I have told the other shops where i am a regular customer and they were shocked as she alleged that i had been doing this all over the shopping centre. They were WTAF Several members of staff in other shops said im a polite customer. And they have never had any problem with me. I

From a purely legal perspective, this was unwise, because it may well end any libel/slander claim that you had. In reality, that doesn't really matter, because it costs a LOT of money to bring any claim, and it'd be unheard of without financial loss. You would, quite literally, be throwing money away.

That's also the reason that going to the press probably wouldn't be wise.

The man who approached you - was he a member of the public, or an employee of another shop? I know our WHSmith/whatever it's now called is part of a community watch type scheme where shoplifters details are shared across stores to prevent losses. I wonder if that's where he knew you from.

It is upsetting, if you've done nothing wrong; but you have limited legal recourse. It's unlikely, although not impossible, that the CPS would look to prosecute this.

It's probably going to be a case of avoiding the store and letting everything die down, even if that feels pretty unfair right now.

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:28

Post18 · 19/08/2025 14:15

This does happen. My mum has been given Xmas cards twice from her local Sainsbury’s (local type shop not superstore). And Xmas just gone they gave her a box of choc too. She is in there every morning at about the same time and she’s usually polite (although I’m not with her to confirm she is to the staff at Sainsbury’s!!).

To the OP, as I understand it you’ve been accused face to face of shop lifting by a staff member of (what was) WH Smith’s. She wasn’t accusing you of shop lifting on that day though. This lady also posted this on social media. A little while later a man accused you too.And you believe this was due to the social media post. Is that about the measure of it.

I too would be very distressed if I was incorrectly accused of shoplifting. I’d also be cross if the same was posted on social media.

You say you’ve reported to the police. If you feel that action should be taken but hasn’t been, I’d suggest making an appointment at your local police station to speak to someone so they can explain what they’ve done with your complaint and why they haven’t done anything more. Whilst the case may be very clear to you, it won’t necessarily be as clear to them. And they may not have enough evidence.

You’ve contacted the CEO too. I suspect any investigation he has his team do will revolve around the social media post. Not necessarily about the accusation face to face.

Kindly though, I’d suggest speaking to people in real life about this issue. They will know you and can support you. They will also be able to help you see what you want from all of this and what is achievable. Strangers on the internet are probably not the best bet especially as it’s clearly quite emotive for you. I’m not trying to be a dick saying that but I realise it sounds like it.

Yep I got a tub of Quality Street with my card

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Bambamhoohoo · 19/08/2025 14:29

PlutoCat · 19/08/2025 14:04

Search again. OP has been here for a long time.

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Wrongly accused of shoplifting and harrassment.
Tunisia2025 · 19/08/2025 14:30

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What a nasty bitch

You think the OP needs a therapist so you must think they are mentally unwell, yet here you are goading them?

Your family must be so proud of you

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:31

The man who approached you - was he a member of the public, or an employee of another shop?

He was a member of the public. He was very early 20s by the look of him. The woman who works in WH Smith who accused me was maybe late 30s early 40s.

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KilkennyCats · 19/08/2025 14:31

Doggymummar · 19/08/2025 14:09

My Chinese takeaway did

I doubt it has the same reach as a branch of Sainsbury’s.

Daisymaybe60 · 19/08/2025 14:33

calanaiscailleach · 19/08/2025 14:19

Some really nasty and unkind comments on here. It’s bullying 🤷🏻‍♀️
What a pile on.
Im sorry you are experiencing the shop situation and also what you have been subjected to on here OP.

I agree. I don’t know what people get from being like that, but it reflects badly on them.

A wrong accusation could happen to anyone, and the Facebook shaming is just appalling. And not something many of us could just ignore or rise above, surely? I’d second the suggestion about trying Citizens’ Advice.

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:34

my watchlist threads im on is showing 1699 threads. Ive searched old posts of mine before to c+P on to another thread and cant find them Does that mean they dont exist?

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Wilfulignoranceabounds · 19/08/2025 14:34

Pricelessadvice · 19/08/2025 13:41

Why would someone randomly accuse you of shoplifting?
If you didn’t do it, there’ll be no evidence of it. Shops are covered in CCTV so just ask them check the CCTV.

Your slightly crazy attitude rings alarm bells.
I also thought you might be the Boots lady…

Omg! How many people are gonna bring up Boots lady? At this point I think you’re all just tryna wind her up so you can call her crazy. She doesn’t even know who you’re talking about. She has said she’s not that person multiple times.

musicinme · 19/08/2025 14:36

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:28

IM NOT HER FOR FUCK SAKE. AS ME AS ME AS ME. Ive been using this name for a long while im now going to start reporting posts

to your solicitor?

TheCurious0range · 19/08/2025 14:36

I got a Christmas card and some celebrations from our sainsbos local, it's at the end of our street so the place I go for bits and pieces several times a week. Weird how people are picking on that.

OP have you contacted the store manager at Smith's? Told them about the incident and also that you believe a member of their staff is posting details on social media? I also agree with following up at your local police station.

steff13 · 19/08/2025 14:37

romdowa · 19/08/2025 13:48

I shop in physical stores all the time. None of them have ever given me a Christmas card

My local Kroger does send me a Christmas card every year signed by the manager. But I'm pretty sure it's because I'm on a list based on the amount of money I spend there every year.

musicinme · 19/08/2025 14:40

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:40

I wasnt acting dodgily. I was standing by the magazines when she came up and accused me of shoplifting on a previous occassion, I have told the other shops where i am a regular customer and they were shocked as she alleged that i had been doing this all over the shopping centre. They were WTAF Several members of staff in other shops said im a polite customer. And they have never had any problem with me. I

I might be being stupid, but wouldn't spreading the news about the shoplifting alligation cause more gossip locally? I think I would avoided the original shop, not go telling others about it?

KilkennyCats · 19/08/2025 14:40

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TorroFerney · 19/08/2025 14:41

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 13:34

I only know her first name because i asked for it the day i was asked to leave the shop,

So where is she posting? Whose social media’s page? The store?

RimTimTagiDim · 19/08/2025 14:42

Do you go in with pots and decant samples of Puzzler and Hello to take home?

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:42

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I dont. Im not techy minded enough unlike DH who is talking about me weariing a body cam

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TheCurious0range · 19/08/2025 14:42

Bambamhoohoo · 19/08/2025 14:29

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You're doing a search not an advanced search. Click on the blue advanced search button/link you can see on your screen shot go to the box that says search by username and enter OPs username. It comes up with about 2500 posts. Don't cast aspersions about whether someone is genuine or not because you can't operate the search function.

JenniferBooth · 19/08/2025 14:42

TorroFerney · 19/08/2025 14:41

So where is she posting? Whose social media’s page? The store?

the towns local fb page

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Sodastreamin · 19/08/2025 14:43

Venalopolos · 19/08/2025 13:38

Was this shop in a train station or airport?

If not, it wasn’t a WH Smith so stop trying to contact them.

Incorrect, there’s a large standalone WH Smith in my town and yes, still called WH Smith

TheCurious0range · 19/08/2025 14:43

Sodastreamin · 19/08/2025 14:43

Incorrect, there’s a large standalone WH Smith in my town and yes, still called WH Smith

Mine too