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Unauthorised photography within my home and sharing of the photographs

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Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:08

I found out that a contractor has taken photographs of the inside of my home that I did not authorise, one of them has got my child in the corner I’m fucking furious about. Obviously it’s gone from one employees phone to another and then it’s been forwarded onto who is thinks is me but actually I’m using an email address that isn’t the one that he would have on my contract if that makes sense so I think he’s on thin ice with that.

This can’t be legal surely ?

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CandyLeBonBon · 09/11/2022 19:49

Op. Presumably they didn't barge in uninvited? So they came to the door, you said they could come in and they started taking photos. Did you say anything to them? And is your child's face in the photo?

heldinadream · 09/11/2022 19:50

OP how do you feel about the cctv that captures images of you and your child everywhere you go?

TheBoots · 09/11/2022 19:50

The only way this could possibly be wrong would be if they were using the photos in a commercial capacity (I.e. selling the photo). They're not. They took a photo of their worksite to share a situation with their manager/client (you). Quite frankly you're sounding completely irrational.

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:50

GoonerGirl5231 · 09/11/2022 19:48

That's not going to hold up in court for a single second if they decide to pursue a claim for breach of contract. They were gathering corroborating evidence and it will be seen as such.

If anybody is going to court it will be me pursuing them not the other way round they have my money.

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DeliberatelyObtuse · 09/11/2022 19:50

"I don’t care whether they were in the wrong they aren’t obviously going to be invited back so as far as I’m concerned they tore up the contract for them to have the audacity to photograph I’m sorry I think it’s disgusting"

I'm pretty sure they'll be pleased to hear they aren't going to be invited back

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:50

heldinadream · 09/11/2022 19:50

OP how do you feel about the cctv that captures images of you and your child everywhere you go?

I’m in a public place then I don’t have the right to privacy and I am aware of that.

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Zoomingo · 09/11/2022 19:51

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:26

Nearly right … however wouldnt a normal person communicate that rather than photograph it ?

Nope they'd take a photo to prove they couldn't incase you say it never happened

AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 09/11/2022 19:51

I used to work with someone who was unable to explain things in a clear way, you remind me of them OP

CandyLeBonBon · 09/11/2022 19:51

So you walked off, expecting the contractor to follow you but you left your toddler alone in the hallway?

GoonerGirl5231 · 09/11/2022 19:51

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:50

If anybody is going to court it will be me pursuing them not the other way round they have my money.

That's a plot twist! You've paid them but they are refusing to do the work? On what grounds?

medicatedgift · 09/11/2022 19:51

They literally took a picture to show their boss why they couldn't do the work? Is that it?

Greenshake · 09/11/2022 19:52

I can already smell the compensation claim from the OP

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:52

CandyLeBonBon · 09/11/2022 19:51

So you walked off, expecting the contractor to follow you but you left your toddler alone in the hallway?

No toddler was in the front room watching CBeebies. Completely unaware that it was about to be photographed. Not smiling or anything

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LaMarschallin · 09/11/2022 19:52

Hugasauras · 09/11/2022 19:41

TBH I don't blame them for wanting photographic evidence if you're this liable to fly off the handle over such a minor thing. Do you think there's some sort of contractors paedophile ring for tradesmen interested in glimpses of presumably fully clothed children in the corner of rooms?

Pretty much what I was thinking.

prh47bridge · 09/11/2022 19:52

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:50

If anybody is going to court it will be me pursuing them not the other way round they have my money.

They therefore have evidence they can use if/when you do so to show that you were in breach of contract. They will almost certainly be entitled to hold on to at least some of your money. Depending on how much you have paid and the cost to them of your breach, you may owe them money.

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:52

Greenshake · 09/11/2022 19:52

I can already smell the compensation claim from the OP

No I just want my money back and my kid not photographed in their own home.

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anyolddinosaur · 09/11/2022 19:52

You are getting het up over nothing. Time to calm down. They've taken a photo of your child, you can ask them to blur that or, if it still gives the evidence they want they can crop the photo.

Soapboxqueen · 09/11/2022 19:53

Unless you told them not to photograph anything before they came in, they can take photos. Even if you told them not to and they did anyway, you have no right to ask for the photos to be destroyed. They belong to the photographer.

If they'd snuck around and took photos of you in the bath (expectation of privacy) you might have a point.

However, you invited them in. You can ask them to leave if they take photos but that's it.

They've come to do a job but couldn't complete it. They've taken photos as evidence. I think you need to focus on why your property was not ready for the work to be completed.

medicatedgift · 09/11/2022 19:54

The fact that your kid was in the photo is incidental.

They weren't deliberately photographing your toddler.

VivX · 09/11/2022 19:54

But why couldn't the contractor do the work?

Wouldn't it have been more sensible to sort out whatever was preventing the contractor from carrying out the work?

Did you have a discussion with the contractor themselves before they left?

AnApparitionQuipped · 09/11/2022 19:54

Changerofthename1 · 09/11/2022 19:49

I showed them what needed doing they looked at it. I moved towards the back of the house expecting that they were following me apparently they weren’t. They must’ve taken the pictures when my back was turned. I’ve literally got to the back of the house turned around to find no contract are behind me and then them outside on the phone presumably to the boss. He’s then tried to phone me which I found out later because the call didn’t connect it’s gone straight to voicemail and then the contactor is left obviously not a word about taking a photograph.

So you showed them what needed doing - did they then say they couldn't and you disagreed? For arguments sake:

You: 'The new carpet is to be laid in this room'
Them: 'We can't do it because you need to move the sideboard out of the way'
You: 'You can move the sideboard into the kitchen.'
Them: 'We can't move the sideboard because the telly is in the way' (etc)

I'm trying to work out how it got to a photo being needed.

CandyLeBonBon · 09/11/2022 19:55

We need a diagram op. I'm confused - your kid is in the lounge watching tv, the builders are in the hall and you're at the back of the house? Why did you take them to the back of the house when they needed to photograph the living room? I'm so confused!

Zoomingo · 09/11/2022 19:55

What was stopping them? Your child?

medicatedgift · 09/11/2022 19:55

Why did you walk away to the back of the house if the work was to be done at the front?

LaMarschallin · 09/11/2022 19:56

Completely unaware that it was about to be photographed. Not smiling or anything

Would it have helped if had been beaming for the camera?