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My Employer wants my wife to quit her job.

190 replies

Bhollis · 26/04/2021 05:46

My employer has asked me to start working weekends and to be on call all the time. I am not able to do this as on the weekends I look after my children while my wife works.

My employer has said that she "may have to think about giving it up" so I can work my new hours.

Am I right in thinking that is a unreasonable change to ask for? Can he also said he needs an answer within 24 hours.

OP posts:
DPotter · 13/05/2021 03:02

That's brilliant news B

best of luck to you

cathcath2 · 13/05/2021 03:02

Good for you! Congrats on the new job

BarbaraofSeville · 13/05/2021 04:06

[quote ElGuardiandenoche]**@lillylemons, my advice would be to at least read the OP’s posts. The latest update of which is the post before yours and explains that he has a new self employed job.[/quote]
Grin

Oh the irony of missing the content of the OPs update post when, without that post, @lillylemons won't have seen the thread at all. Confused

That's great news OP. I wish you and your DW every success with your expanded dog related business.

SpeakingFranglais · 13/05/2021 05:09

Well done! I hope your employer (relative) was deservedly passed off and regrets putting his greed before your welfare.

Mummyoflittledragon · 13/05/2021 05:58

That’s brilliant! I read your thread when you first posted. Your cousin will now have to do the donkey work. Result!

Lavinia1 · 13/05/2021 06:27

Based on what you said about your wife’s salary and the pay rise you’ll lose Over £10k a year as a family. Your ‘extra pay’ will get taxed more than her first £12k as well so factor that in and it’s a no brainier.

Tell your cousin that it makes no financial sense unless he can pay you £14k net of tax for the weekends - otherwise you’re worse off as a family!

Lavinia1 · 13/05/2021 06:29

Sorry - I missed your update. Well done!

groovergirl · 13/05/2021 06:29

@bhollis Best happy ending I've read in years!!! Good on you for standing up to the bully, and good luck with your venture. Star

HartstonesMustard · 13/05/2021 06:29

Fantastic update Bhollis really pleased it worked out for you in a different way.

Adreinnesarmy · 13/05/2021 06:42

@Bhollis

UPDATE

Hiya all.

So I wanted to update you all. Firstly I went and got real legal advice. As many of you stated what my ex employer was trying to do does indeed break employment laws.

So I have taken alot of your guys advice and looked for a new employer. So I quit my job and started my own dog training and dog minding service. I got to admit I am kinda happy my ex employer did this as I now have what looks to be a booming business. We already have over 140 one to one hours booked in with clients. We also got 2 people who want us to look after their dogs for 2 weeks each. After nearly 2k worth of setup cost we are now looking at nearly £900 profit already.

So thank you everyone who gave the advice. It really was the best. Thanks again.

What a fantastic update. Thanks for taking time to share as I often wonder what happens next on these sort of threads. I am thrilled it has worked out so well for you 😀
iloveeverykindofcat · 13/05/2021 06:45

Good move OP. I bet you'll do great, there are loads of people around here who got a dog during lockdown and now need help looking after it.

Lockdownbear · 13/05/2021 06:48

Good move, best of luck with it.

Zzelda · 13/05/2021 07:25

That was very quick!

How did your cousin take it?

FedUpAtHomeTroels · 13/05/2021 08:07

Thats a great update, well done.

IND1A · 13/05/2021 20:41

Thanks for such a great update and good luck with your new business.

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