ExH got court order in June for week long holiday this xmas and next summer. history of DV which was dismissed as historic (umm)...
DS was interviewed by Cafcass in December 2012 and said a previous holiday 3 years ago with Ex was ok but he only wanted day visit now but Cafcass recommended staying contact anyway. (Ummm too…)
I was accused in court of having"influenced" him (ummm…)
DS is 12 in this coming January and he does not want to go. He's told his father and his father wrote to him saying that harshness benefits children and that he was beaten as a child and this did him good… Now DS really does not want to go!
I have suggested more gradual plan to ExH but got rebuffed. (With a "deadline" to confirm the xmas holidays (Ignored…)
Anyway advise please on what to do? Do I insist DS goes against his will and make him go; call police on day if he refuses to go; just don't go; or apply for variation order even though its only been a few months?
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ginandtonic2003 · 22/09/2014 10:26
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