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Single young mum with 2 kids about to be evicted - plse help

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TheRhubarb · 13/06/2011 10:56

My neighbour is a single mum with 2 pre-school kids, one just 8 months old. She's been living where she is now for more than a year and her contract is a rolling one with both owners of the house who are renting it out because they've split up.

The contract is signed by both parties and she pays her rent to a bank account in the wife's name.

He now has a new girlfriend and wants to move back into the property, giving her 2 months notice. But she didn't pay him a deposit which means she has no deposit to take to another house. 2 months doesn't give her time to find a new place or save up for the deposit she would need.

She's currently on maternity leave but will be a full time student in Sept and is receiving housing benefit, child tax credit etc.

He hasn't given her formal notice yet, he's coming at 12noon to tell her whether or not he wants to move back in and I'm going to be with her for support. My question is; obv he will have to give written notice but will his wife need to sign the eviction notice too?

Should she tell him that he'll have to evict her forcibly? Which he will need to do because otherwise she'll have made herself voluntarily homeless.

Any other advice before he comes round gratefully appreciated.

Cheers guys

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GypsyMoth · 14/06/2011 11:16

i dont think she is Ishani!

exhausted2011 · 14/06/2011 12:00

Ishani, how the hell do you know that she hasn't begged him for money for the children, how do you know she "chooses" not to live with the father? She might beg him for that too

And the trust fund isn't hers. Yes, her mother offered it too her, but maybe she has a million reasons for refusing it. Nobody knows.

There might be a million reasons why their situation is the way it is.

I think she is so far off giving single mums a bad name. She is on maternity leave, she has plans to go to University. FFS

I think I may have to hide this thread

GypsyMoth · 14/06/2011 12:09

the CSA exists for men like this.......he should support his kids!! and that includes help with the basics,such as a roof over their heads

exhausted2011 · 14/06/2011 12:12

Well yes Tiffany, but we all know how many people get away with it.

My point is we don't know the exact details do we?
He might give her money, he might pay for their clothes, he might be saving up that money for them to get a house together
who the fuck knows?

GypsyMoth · 14/06/2011 12:15

get away with what?

exhausted2011 · 14/06/2011 12:20

not paying CSA

Ishani · 14/06/2011 12:26

We draw our conclusions from the OP that how the hell we know the CSA aren't required she is still with him.
I've been planning to go to university for 15 years, you know what stops me ? DH's salary being too much but not enough, kick him out and I'd be home and dry. What a prat I've been all these years eh ?

meditrina · 14/06/2011 13:23

If you look back up the thread, you will see the regulations on how trust funds are treated.

We seem to have been told that the mother is the trustee and the neighbour is the beneficiary - and the beneficial owner is the legal owner of the capital. So yes, the Trust is hers and should be counted - in accordance with those regulations - as her asset.

Gooseberrybushes · 14/06/2011 15:18

"how do you know she "chooses" not to live with the father?"

Apparently they are "hoping" to live together soon.

GypsyMoth · 14/06/2011 18:32

Well they won't get hb if he owns his own place

Ishani · 14/06/2011 19:21

Well that rather depends on them telling the truth doesn't it, which seems unlikely given they've forgotten to mention a bleedin trust fund.

nancydrewfoundaclue · 14/06/2011 19:56

So this girl has a partner who is the father of her very "young children"; he owns his flat outright and also earns £17k and their relationship is sufficiently good that "she hopes to move in with him soon", yet he does absolutely bugger all to support her financially and would see them homeless rather than put his hand in his pocket.

Who the hell thinks this sort of behaviour is acceptable??

Frankly something just doesn't add up here.

And I have every sympathy with the LL who will have to pay the costs involved in getting a s.21 order.

Collaborate · 14/06/2011 20:32

Don't think we can make too many assumptions. Don't think many of us would fancy living on £17k gross. Doesn't he rent somewhere himself? We don't know what he buys for the kids.

nancydrewfoundaclue · 15/06/2011 03:44

collaborate the OP has stated that the "bf" owns his flat outright. £17k is not a bad salary if you have no housing costs and are just supporting yourself.

Collaborate · 15/06/2011 06:32

Ah - missed that bit.

veritythebrave · 15/06/2011 06:50

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GypsyMoth · 15/06/2011 11:44

well she certainly wont be able to pick and choose. she will be in a hostel or b and b,then wait it out for a flat,or possibly house to come up. she may have to bid for it herself,and a university place wont have any bearing on what property she is offered!! it will be a case of take what you are offered....its a roof!!

wellymelly · 02/09/2011 22:11

blimey ....this is like reading a script of Coronation Street!

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