Hi there, I am looking for some urgent advice, I have a seven year old darling daughter from a previous abusive relationship, me and her father broke up when she was one, he did not see her nor contact her for two years after that until he took legal action to get access to his daughter, we had a finding of fact hearing which found him guilty of lots of abuse towards me with DD present, including holding a knife to my chest and keeping us locked in the house and strangling me on more than one occasion causing me to pass out. He underwent a phychological assessment who said contact should be supervised as its concerning as all the dvidence shows what he did however he continues to deny this, police records and medical history also indicate he used to self harm and take overdoses after DD was born, a long battle commenced as he was granted supevised contact at a sunday, after 12 months this changed to unsupervised, this is when problems began and it seems he has been abusing DD both mentally aswell as hitting her on two occasions, this has resulted in DD Refusing contact all together, cafcass has reported to the court what has happened to my daughter and the fact she is so opposed to contact due to her fear of him, however still proposes contsct is reinstated as she says it is too premature to stop contact, my daughter is very upset and still refuses to go, I am going to court tomorrow to state I am not in agreement to this as DD is scared and father denies all abuse, I cannot get legal aid and am self representing, can anyone offer any advice, what happens if and when contact is ordered and DD refuses to go? please help.