Why do people look at me look [hmm] when i say that callum might not be our last?

[SparklyGothKat]

Me and DH have both said we would like one more baby, purely for Callum as the older ones are all at school. its not for sure, and I have a coil so its not going to be a overnight decision, but the looks from people when they ask 'So youre not having any more, are you??' and I say 'maybe' makes me Its up to us surely!!

Poledra - of course I am going to keep having DC until I get a boy, the unwanted girls I'll put on ebay

No sweetkitty, you have it wrong, just list them on mumsnet swaps to get your boy

Of course i'm not having anymore!!!! But then I have said that after every baby (I have 4 dcs).

I posted recently in this section about wanting a fourth biological dc after having 2 dc who have additional needs(one deaf the other autistic) and was offered sound advice about whether it was fair and reasonable to have another.They were both in special care at birth like your dc too.

my thread here

If you want one then its up to you and best of luck with your decision.