I've seen so many posters wobble about whether or not to try for a 3rd. The advice always seems to be 2/3rds hell no (really hard, increased risk of SEN etc), 1/3rd yes it's tough but worth it. My circumstances are- approaching 40, 2 DC, always wanted 2 DC but can't stop thinking about another baby ever since younger DC turned 2. I'm telling myself to ignore it, blaming my hormones etc, but I can't stop thinking about how lovely it might be. I'm thinking I just need to wait this out but but...what if I regret it?
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Those who decided NOT to go for a 3rd...any regret?
SoMuchIndecision · 25/12/2023 23:55
DustyLee123 · 26/12/2023 07:46
I remember the overwhelming sadness that I’d never experience pregnancy and a new baby again. It passes.
I was desperate a 3rd but DH said no, and he was right. Id hate to have a teen now, while I’m in peri.
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Desecratedcoconut · 26/12/2023 09:08
How odd to be on the larger families board talking about how glad you are that you didn't have a larger family.
I'm not the thread police but it's a bit odd. I might go over to the doghouse board and see if anyone is glad they never bothered with a dog.
Then I'm off to the overseas board and ask if anyone thought about a holiday but just stayed at home instead.
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